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Archived questions from: 27 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

(More questions from February, 2014)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is it a big deal for my boyfriend and I to be 7 years apart?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - im 14 turning 15 and my lover has just turned 23 and we are pretty far apart in age but does it really matter? we do not have a sexual relationship and nobody except a close adult friend of mine knows, I feel the urge to tell my mother that im in love but I know that she will ... (86 words)

How do we deal with his crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello Friends, I need a help. It is for my wife that I write. Her nephew is just 18 and very curious about things. He is very close to her and week back he asked his troubles to her. She being friendly explained as much possible. He during the course touched her and hugged h... (100 words)

How do I deal the stress of knowing my parents don't want me home for 5 months before I go back to uni?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (?) age 26-29 - I am an extremely calm and laid back person as a rule, but recently I have been struggling with a great deal of things: 1. My parents are having some serious issues with their marriage (I know there is nothing I can do but it is on my mind). 2. My dad has said he doesn't ... (363 words)

Is it ok to date a separated person?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (M)

age - I'm divorced and met a woman through friends who's married but living separated lives with her husband for financial reasons. Long story short, she invited me out for a date. Is it wrong to date a separated woman who's husband is already out there dating and having sex with ... (107 words)

Is she not interested? Was it too soon to tell her how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

27 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello cupid Well, I am pursuing a girl for some time and dating for 3 months . Well, the other day I met her and told her how I feel about her ( i am attracted to her and why i like her) and she seemed shy for a moment and then she was very composed and collective. She talk... (160 words)

Pregnant and confused! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - heya, my head is so confussed, i just found out im pregnant! im not in a realtionship and have slept with two boys this month with about 3-4days appart, so have no way in knowing who the father is. this isnt the first time iv been pregnant, but last time i was in... (210 words)

Should I tell my FWB I'm talking to someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I tell my FWB that I'm taking to somebody else? It's not sexual with the other person, but it is something I see turning into a relationship with.... (29 words)

Should I tell him about kissing a guy when I was 22?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for a little less than a year to a man I love. I could never imagine betraying our marriage ever- I am completely and happily devoted to him. Before we got married, we dated for about 10 years since I was 18- long distance. During that time we were both very ... (254 words)

Dumping on a girlfriend for a man you hardly know!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My american friend (girl) has been planning to come over for a ages and so I invited her to stay with me for a few nights. She's been texting me on her progress with planning her trip for months and I got my spare room ready for her, booked a restaurant and organised a lovely ... (230 words)

Can I ever really trust her after I found out about her threesome?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 3885 days ago

27 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - 6 months into our relationship my girlfriend went on holiday and I later found out that she had a threesome with two men she met in a nightclub while she was away. After she said it was just a crazy one off I forgave her. But I just can't get the thought of her with the ... (170 words)

Am I being unfair or irrational about his apparent lack of interest in making time for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My LT bf works long hours, every week day and then has to do work from home at the weekend. As a result, we don't spend a huge amount of time together, usually 8.30/9-10.30 (bedtime) a few days a week and then a few hours on and off at weekend. I have learned to get used to ... (209 words)

How can I help my colleague and friend? Afraid she's having a crisis and may lose her job.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3861 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have a frienship question. I work with a woman who has, over the years, become a friend. Though we don't really socialise outside work, we do confide in one another when we go for lunch etc. I am fond of her. Her home life has spiralled out of control. She is... (580 words)

Is it silly to date an ex? Has he really grown up and sorted himself out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex has changed so much in the past few months, it's like he is a different person. I can't stop thinking about him and now he wants to get back together but I'm still hurting from the way he acted when we were together. So, we were together for a year or so and we fought... (561 words)

I resent that his ex-wife expects me and my family to run errands for her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am frustrated and unhappy and thinking of leaving my 3 year relationship. My live in divorced boyfriend's ex wife seems to think it is appropriate for everyone to run errands for her and thir child. She instructs him to tell me to pick up art supplies as I work in the area ... (209 words)

I am overreacting or is he purposefully putting me down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am older than my husband. He is from a different country and keeps calling me old woman. This has been going on for a while now and I find it very irritatating and annoying and when someone persists in keep saying and doing something that you don't like than how do you deal ... (95 words)

Boyfriend has said "I'm a keeper" multiple times out of no where?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So this past week my bf has said I was a keeper multiple times. Last night he tells me his boss wanted to meet me because he was telling her about me, he said "she's a keeper". Within the past 2 days he's said it 3 times. what does that really mean coming from a guy? He's never ... (71 words)

I feel intimidated and insecure due to boyfriend's female friends.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I’ve been with my boyfriend for just under two years and we had a distant relationship for the majority of that time, although we lived within half an hour of each other for about six months. Just over a week ago we moved into a flat together. I moved to the city he lives in. ... (266 words)

Partner hooked by a particular type of porn... and has acted on it. How secure is our future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I just found out that my boyfriend of a year has an addiction to SHEMALE porn. He has been watching now for about 10 years and he is about to be 30. Not only does he masturbate to it on a frequent basis, but he has actually acted on it a few years ago before we were together. ... (244 words)

I want this new relationship to go well. How do I make it work? Because I push people away to keep them at an emotional distance from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - in my group of friends i always tend to be the one who comes up with the funny and clever comebacks insults and jokes mostly because i try to keep people at an emotional distance from me while still being "part of the group" (im actually very nice and generous to people who i ... (136 words)

What can I do about my Bf's extreme aversion towards contact with me when I have my period? His actions are hurtful.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend is good to talk to, not a great listener, but he is very passionate when he cares, is helpful, understanding and not egotistic and is generous. but when it comes to me been on my period, it is a whole different box of cookies, i cannot even so much as mention ... (313 words)

Does a past abuse relationship impact on my future relationships? I keep pushing people away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

27 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi folks, i have a problem. I was in a rather emotionally abusive relationship that i broke out of almost a year ago and ever since i have been kind of rude and pushing people away to keep from getting close to any women, is this normal? what should i do?... (52 words)

Do I need the hurt again? He's trying to get back with me. I still care for him. But I keep on rejecting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - It's so easy to say dont answer his calls or respond to his texts. I really love him and I want it to work but i know that he has to change. Someone said that he needs sex and that is why he is trying to talk to me again but i am pretty sure he was getting sex from someone... (293 words)

I need help with how to relate to my LDR, please? I don't know what to do to make things better.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need urgent help. So this guy I met a year ago or a little more (in person) have recently started talking. We share a lot of things in common, we're both creative and both of us are in college although I'm in a gap year staying with my family at the moment. He is from abr... (454 words)

His home smells. Am I being petty. How can I solve this problem ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (?) age 41-50 - I am in an LDR and every other weekend I see my bf. I love him very much but I hate his house. I know it sounds very shallow but it is a very very old house. The bathroom has mould growing in it and green bathtub...toilet etc. The whole house though is NASTY. It even smell... (113 words)

How can I break this way of thinking? I don't feel like I'll ever find the kind of relationship I want

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - The infatuation and excitement of a new relationship does not last for years and years, but a lot of people don't seem to understand that. I feel like I probably won't find someone who understands that long relationships are not rainbows and butterflies all the time, I feel like... (291 words)

Banned at work! Romantic relationships, what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (M)

age - I work at a place where romantic relationships between employees are banned. I know this woman there, we've both been there for many many years, been friends all this time. I know she has a romantic attraction for me and I am attracted as well. We have spent a little time ... (159 words)

I have never had anyone really love me, I feel rejected and alone!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a gay female, I am not "super frilly or girly" but I am feminine and am attracted to the same in women. Im not the stereotypical gay female, I'm not into the gay scene due to not so good experiences in the past with nasty women. I know not all women are like t... (484 words)