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Archived questions from: 24 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why is he acting like this? A late mid-life crisis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so theres this guy at work and usually i just say hi then carry on with my work. like i dont pay him much attention recently every time i walk past him he'll pretend to punch me(without making contact) /lightly punch my arm or like pretend to throw the bottle of water ... (140 words)

First one night stand has me wondering why boys are like this!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - On Friday I had my first ever one night stabd! But I really havebt taken it well I didn't know the guy I had met him that night And had spent most of the night with him we had got to talking and he took me back to his. Obviously everything happened when were drunk fell asleep ... (146 words)

Help -- my manager is a bully!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Sorry guys not really a relationship question but here goes... I really could do with some help regarding my job. I work in london in a very busy office of around 300 people. I'm in a good job, well paid and stable. However I'm feeling really depressed as my manager b... (243 words)

He wants me to move away with him but I can't stand the thought of leaving my friends and family behind

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A year ago, I met the man of my dreams. I am 21, and he is 27. He is originally from Australia, and had spent the last three years living in the uk. He moved over here to live with his father who is a British citizen. We met through mutual friends, and we soon became a couple... (465 words)

Is there any way to improve this situation? My ex is now working here and is dating a guy with a bigger job than I have!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I guess there are two parts to this that need explained. First my job. I've been working in my job for a while now; it's a job in the intended career path I've chosen for myself (got a degree at university to do this line of work). I'm good at my job; I have been give... (924 words)

I'm struggling with accepting his use of porn, it breaks my heart!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have always struggled with accepting porn behind my back from my husband. I have come a long way and have come to terms that it is normal. I also have found that the less I stress about it, the better off I am. That I should be thankful that he is a healthy masterbator ... (163 words)

Hurt me once, shame on you. Hurt me twice, shame on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated and fell in love with a guy in the summer/ fall of 2012, but who ultimately went back to his ex (a prior very long term relationship) and was living with her. We reconnected some months thereafter where we talked about how much we still loved one another, etc ... (530 words)

Why am I kept separate from his friends and family after dating for over a year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. Ive only met his mom once, 2 of his friends once and that was a year ago when we first started dating. He doesnt take me around anyone for whatever reason because he says im boring. Our relationship is boring to be honest ... (171 words)

I am losing sleep and feeling really down on my self because he is having trouble getting over this, he makes me out to be such a horrible uncaring person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I am having issues getting through a little speed bump with my boyfriend. There has been absolutely no cheating or lying just something from my past he cant get over. We had known each other for quite some time but only started seeing each other after I had decided to ... (341 words)

How can I trust him to be a nice guy again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everybody there, I have some trust and reliance problems with my boyfriend. We were in a long distance relationship about one year and now he's living at mine. I'm from East Europe and he's from West part and spends his holiday in my country. Every 2 months we met each oth... (969 words)

I am friends with a guy but it's too soon after my recent break up to take it further. What can I do? I don't want to lose him as a friend or potential partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with an ex about 6 weeks ago and for the past 3 weekends I've been hanging out with a male friend. He's been wonderful helping me get over my breakup but last weekend he began dropping hints how he thinks I'm "wonderful", he said loves being around me and he even ... (197 words)

How can I get the conversation away from these topics with these people??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

24 February 2014 (?) age 51-59 - This may seem like a weird question but I need to ask. I have a couple of friends, (not close "see all the time friends") that I see ever few 4-10 months or so, usually for coffee/lunch. After the initial "hi how are you, whats up", etc etc the conversation always ends up b... (435 words)

Why was my boyfriend more experimental with his ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I know from little conversations we've had here and there that my boyfriend had much more experimental sex with his ex. Questions like: have you done this or that before? To which he might say yes.. We have a great sex life anyway, he tells me I'm his best but it makes me inse... (206 words)

My crush says she doesn't trust men, but I really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

24 February 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - now being a freshan in high school, dating is fairly useless. I like this girl and we are great friends, so i decided i wanted to date her. i have given her gifts, hugged her, and put my arm around her all in order to get her to like me a little more. recently she said when she ... (109 words)

He lied to me about being married and now I feel wrecked!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I met this guy who seemed to b really nice he treated me pretty well I don't know he was a married man, we had sex a couple of times but within 3 months he felt like he needed some space to study about a month, I felt hurt like i was gonna a lose him, he told me he was ... (341 words)

My boyfriend thinks I am cheating because I am 'too loose".

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Help, my boyfriend, we've been together for 2 years and he thinks I'm cheating because I feel "loose", and I feel it to. We used to have sex everyday, but it began to lessen. Now we have sex once every two weeks, and even then I still feel loose, I don't know what's wrong with ... (103 words)

When my girlfriend gets mad, she doesn't scream, she doesn't shout, she just shuts down!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. I'll go ahead and jump right in. I'm a 30 year old male. I've been seeing my gf for just over a year now. We have talked about moving in together within the next year or so and marriage, but her behaviors are totally destroying our relationship and I don't have a c... (633 words)

Now then ...what about sexual fantasies in committed relationships?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

24 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a strict question about sexuality/fantasies in relationships. First off, I have come to a point with my girlfriend where I'm pretty certain everything can be put in the open if asked correctly, that is, it works generally with people but you have to be more c... (510 words)

His breakup excuse has confused me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke things off with me after 3 years saying that I am an "amazing" person but his "taste" has changed over the years since we have been together. What does that even mean?? I feel awful. I am a beautiful girl and was nothing but caring and loving to this man, who ... (60 words)

I am being shut out by his language!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi! I need advice on a relationship with language differences. When I met my boyfriend he didnt know any English, but he insisted on being with me. He worked hard to learn English and did well. Now his daughter came to live with us full time and he no longer speaks English ... (183 words)

After four years of dating he still avoids talking about committment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

24 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupids, I'm looking for some advice because I'm really upset and I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 and a half years, and we've been having some issues lately because he has been avoiding the topic of commitment whene... (698 words)