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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I really gay or just scarred by women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3958 days ago

17 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I'm Todd, I’ve never had any luck with women. Ever since I was a little boy girls never seemed to like me. Many girls seem to give the impression they like my looks although I’ve rarely ever heard anyone say it, besides my mom’s friends. No one seems to like me. I’ve he... (556 words)

My friends want to move abroad without their young-adult children

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

17 February 2014 (M)

age - Am interested what you think of this situation. Some friends of min are bith 52, and have 2 kids: girl of 18 and boy of 20. The parents want to emigrate from england to spain on a permanent basis. The kids dont want to go with them. But the parents are definitely going to ... (112 words)

Should I let one ex help me get over another?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have just come out of a horrible relationship of 10 months. Another ex contacted me to ask if I was ok. He has been really supportive listening and taking me out to cheer me up. We broke up amicably last year because he wasn't over his ex and I bailed out. He apologised for ... (179 words)

Should I ask him out first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this one guy I'm interested in he often sends off mixed signals about his feelings towards me. So I've been thinking about either telling him I like him or ask him out to test the waters. but Im not so sure if I should be the one asking him out or be the first to show ... (113 words)

I just met this guy a week ago and already we fight all the time!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone. I just met this guy its been a week now, my problem I just don't understand him at all. we suppose to be happy but to my surprise we fight all the time. when we have to see each it must be on the street because where he stays he was sharing a place with his ... (264 words)

He goes to his friends first, does it mean I am not as important to him as he is to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know what this means, or what others think it means. When I have a difficult time, or something troubles me, my boyfriend is the first person I go to. It is from him I seek comfort. He knows all my secrets. That is the kind of relationship I want, where we are two ... (364 words)

Should I go to see my online friend even though we face distance and cultural differences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am new to this site. I am from India and I love a girl in Romania. She recently got out of a relationship. They were going out for 7-8 years; even though she loved him, he never loved her. I suggested her to break the relationship. I might have flirted with her a bit and ... (397 words)

How can I meet someone who is the average only?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what else to do with my life. I am at my wits end. I just came from a break-up from my 4 year relationship and I am trying to meet new people. I am in a location where it's really difficult to find a new partner. It's either people are already married or are e... (330 words)

I hate to be the first one to reach for his hand or make physical contact!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy I've been seeing for about a month isn't great at initiating any physical contact but is happy enough when I do. Like if I slip my hand in his, he'll wrap an arm around my shoulders after a bit but it's just odd cz he's the one who asked me out the first two or three ... (118 words)

I have the most amazing partner in life, can I stop having random dreams about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 22. To cut a long story short(er), last year I broke up with my ex after having discovered he'd cheated on me numerous times during our 3 year relationship. To make it worse, I had no clue nor did he do anything that raised my suspicions, although looking back on things now ... (625 words)

My boyfriend is acting sneaky with his laptop and phone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with my boyfriend of 5 years and have always trusted him but have been noticing recently that he acts sneaky with his phone and laptop. If I come into the room he will swipe everything off his page so that I can't see he also always makes sure that he locks them after ... (363 words)

I've only known him 2 days, he lives in another city and he's already my boyfriend?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3952 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - So 2 days ago I met this guy at a church retreat and we really just clicked and he asked for my number so I gave it to him. By the way he lives in another city like an hour away from me. He texted me yesterday after we got home and we were talking non-stop and he asked if we ... (104 words)

Is history repeating itself? I took my ex back but we have problems.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So cut a story short, I met a guy when I was 17, went through some really bad stuff, lying and cheating. Settled down at 19 and had my son, but then he kept staying out all night getting drunk. So I moved back to my mams in may 2012, after finding out I was already preg... (330 words)

Confused by his behaviour. How to I take it from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

17 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So this is a complicated one, I'm Mike, I met a guy "David" online it was great! We got on so well and I met him a few times, we got drunk on the 2nd meet and then ended up sleeping together. I regret it but it happened. He was a bit off with me after that night but when I invi... (389 words)

No communication from my BF for 9 days. He's ignoring my texts. What is going on and what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive not spoken to my bf since 8th Feb, he works away. I held down and tried not to txt or ring but I asked him to ring Friday and never did. I texted on Sat, nothing, and rang yesterday and still nothing. I'm not sure what to do, I cant stop thinking about him, I've been with... (186 words)

Am I being unreasonable in not wanting my BF to go a festival? He went last year and lied about having girls in his tent.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of almost 3 years went to Leeds festival last year. He went with his single lad friends - I had no worries as I trusted him and only asked he called/text me when he could and no girls in his tent. It went pear shaped - I barely heard from him. He had girls in his t... (154 words)

Selfish in-laws and husband's a pushover with them. How can I speak to him about this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Thank you fir reading in advance. Sorry I know it is long. Me and my partner have been together for 4 years and have 2 children together, the youngest of which is 6 weeks. My partners family have not seen our youngest yet as they all live in different city's but all are ... (437 words)

Was it wrong to accept an expensive gift from my male gay best friend? I think it's made my boyfriend jealous or uncomfortable.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My gay male best friend whom I have known for a year recently took me out for my birthday. He took me to a restaurant that neither my boyfriend and I can afford, and also gifted me a Burberry scarf ($400 value). I had already known which restaurant he was taking me to but I ... (195 words)

I am writing because I feel so low .............

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm writing this because I'm feeling so low, and maybe any answers might help. To cut it short, I met this guy many years back, we started off as friends, He lived away from me, but when we met up, it became more than friends. I then found out he was married, he is Islamic ... (1277 words)

I like a woman I've met. What should my next move be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3840 days ago

17 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - It all started at a friends script reading party late December 2013. I met a girl there and we hit it off pretty well. We ended up talking for about an hour and she asked me to come to her play, I said I would and got her phone number. I called her two days later, she picke... (537 words)

He lied, and his real age has freaked me out!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Making this short because I just recently found out. I don't know how to tell any of my friends about this either but I've been dating this guy I work with for about 2 months and all this time I thought he was 25 because that's what he told me. He even looks like he's in his ... (192 words)

I don't see my boyfriend as long term material and I wonder about my ex FWB. Any ideas what I should do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a month now. Actually, we have dated before, over a year ago and it lasted about 10 months back then. We remained really good friends while we were not together, even though I was dating someone else. After I broke with that someone els... (290 words)

Help, I think I might be gay or bisexual.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I might be gay/bi...HELP!? I'm a 20 year old female and I am so confused it's driving me nuts! I can't seem to enjoy sex with a man at ALL, I've been having sex for 4 years now and haven't had an orgasm once with a man. I can do it myself with the help of toys. O... (132 words)

Looking for some life advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is weird, but I want to get some advice. I want to change some personality traits of mine that do nothing but bring me down and take away opportunities for a better life, but they deal with fighting my nerves and anger. -I hold grudges -I'm terrified of publ... (656 words)

He said he loves my company, but I think I'm in the friend zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear Aunts and Uncles, So, i have recently met a new friend (about a month ago)... The thing is i like him as more than a friend... the other thing is i don't know if there are any chances he might like me back... The night we met he gave me a ride home and we stopped t... (480 words)

He got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

17 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I be upset he got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day? My boyfriend and I both agree that Valentine's day is not a big deal. We are in a long distance relationship-been together about 8 months. We don't see eachother very often in person. When I saw him a few we... (160 words)