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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I bored with him or intimacy or both?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've been with my boyfriend for two years and for the past few months i've noticed i'm never "in the mood", we used to be sooo intimate at the start of our relationship and it was great and now the thought actually makes me feel negative. We've tried a few things to try and ... (129 words)

How can I support my boyfriend's family at this time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So my boyfriends eldest sister is in hospital and it's quite serious, I've told my boyfriend I'm here if he needs anything but I feel like I'm being useless at the minute and I could be doing much more to support and be there for him and his family. Any help or advice on what ... (62 words)

Do I just tell her outright that I like her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so there is a girl at work who I get on with really well, we have loads in common and we are really on the "same page" with all our thoughts/opinions. I'm 22 and she is 19. I like her, but she has a boyfriend of two years. All of my colleagues say what a good couple we would ... (202 words)

Is he joking and messing about? I don't understand what he wants!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 February 2014 (?) age 26-29 - I joined a website about 7 months ago (not a dating website, just penpals) and I met this guy on the site and we hit it off as friends straight away. He's in the military and I'm studying at university. While we was on tour in Afghan, we used to send each other letters an... (198 words)

Horrible relationship with my mother, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi maybe somebody here can help. I have a very serious and personal problem. Through out my whole life my mother unfortunately has been into drugs and alcohol, it's pretty bad. With all due respect, my mother is not really a good person because of this. She lies a lot, stea... (280 words)

I don't think my family likes my boyfriend. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) age 30-35 - I don't think my family likes my boyfriend. It makes me sad. We've been dating for a few months now and in the beginning it seemed like they really liked him but now it has changed I think. I don't know why, exactly. They haven't had any problems, or confrontations, ... (725 words)

My crush is sending mixed messages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi thanks for taking your time to answer this. I currently have a crush on one of my new friends here in college. He's just my type of guy which is rare at my college, we get along really well too. Last trimester we had a few classes together, I knew him through a m... (293 words)

Why am I a Runaway Girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a situation and i'm unsure what to do, my fear has set in and I can feel myself ruining it and I'm doing things I shouldn't be. I'm scared that I don't know if I should end it.. I've been dating this guy for about a month, it's gotten serious with us that he has just... (487 words)

I sent an embarassing drunk text to my ex. Should I apologize or leave it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex broke up with me 5 months ago. We sometimes see each other in mutual events. We are friendly with each other at the events. Sometimes we talk to each other, sometimes we don't I drunk texted him two times before. The first time was on my birthday, he told me happy bi... (374 words)

Can dating a guy you don't find attractive turn out well?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need to know this answer, please don't judge me as I am already aware that I am shallow and I'm sure i'm not the only person who does this. But I don't want to make a big mistake so please advice!! I met this guy, he's almost too perfect in personality wise. He's very ... (386 words)

Should we stay 'just good friends' at the expense of my heart, or should I cut & run, even if it hurts both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm romantically interested in a guy who isn't over his ex, who left him in extremely abrupt circumstances approx. 4 months ago. We get along brilliantly and he's the first person I've ever truly 'clicked' with in terms of personality. The problem is, when I first met him I ... (499 words)

I cant stop thinking about the girl at work and I'm totally in love with her....but she has a boyfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I'm absolutely smitten with this girl at work but she has a boyfriend. I can't get her out of my head no matter how much I try. I'm 25 and she's 22. We work for a small machinery company in the offices. She is top to toe gorgeous, funny, bright, smart and articulate. Literally ... (284 words)

Do you think he might like me? Or do you think he still likes the other girl? Why on Earth did he tell me he's interested in her if he did all of those nice things for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've know of this guy for 3 years through a girlfriend of mine. I began speaking to him on facebook recently and I mentioned to him I had a recent breakup. As soon as I told him this, he came to see me for the weekend because he said he wanted to "cheer me up." He took me out ... (236 words)

I am not getting what I need emotionally from my girlfriend. We have already spoken about it; what else can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3966 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello to all. I'll jump right to the question. I'm gay and have been with my girlfriend just over a year. I love her with my whole heart, but lately, I've not been getting what I need emotionally, and it's causing me some issues. I'm pretty low maintainance. I don't... (503 words)

My partner has moved away and his behaviour has changed. What is going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help I feel so lonely. .. my partner has moved away only 2 hours away but I've not seen him for over coming up to 3 weeks and that was only for a day... I've a little girl but shes not his but still feel lonely with out him here. I sometimes speak to him on the phone but only... (301 words)

I'm insecure and worried that someone will steal my B/f away and I'm perpetually worried about my relationship and assume the worst

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do I worry so much in my relationship? It's like I always think the worst and I don't know why I do this. I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months. There are some times where he will act different and seem off or become a little distant and I automatically st... (324 words)

Has anyone had experience of a lump in the breast and found out later that it was not cancer? Just need some calming and reassuring please?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Just wanted to say first, I have already been to the doctor and I am having tests run. Has anyone had any experience with finding a lump or something abnormal in their breast? I have found a lump recently and I am waiting on some test results and I feel really anxiou... (109 words)

Should I work it out with the father?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years and we now have two children together. Our emotional situation has been constantly insecure. I learned early on he had been lying to me about a porn addiction and we tried hard to work through the lies and deceit, but this ... (239 words)

Flirting tips anyone?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some helpful successful flirting tips for a shy girl without coming off as stupid, desperate, or anything else bad?... I have never I dated. I tend to say dumb thinks whenever around a guy I like. I've been asked by the wrong guys. I never flirted before so any fl... (59 words)

How much is too much in a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've been in a relationship for about 8 years, and it's had a lot of ups and downs. For a while now, more downs than ups, I think he and I would both agree. We had been long distance for a while, came together for graduate school which was very intellectually and emo... (296 words)

We're trying again, this time without it officially being a relationship, but he's wanting more than I'm comfortable giving

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently split with my boyfriend a month ago as the relationship was breaking down constant arguements and my lack of trust. I tried to sort it with him and he didn't show up and not a word was said. So I decided to end it. We met up a week later so we could talk and so he ... (328 words)

Comfort zones and new relationships- I'm confused!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 and have little experience with relationships and that experience isn't necessarily good. The first 'hook-up' I had left me feeling heartbroken and used at 17. At the time I naively thought we were in a relationship but little did I know apparently we were not. Anyway ... (605 words)

He's sweet and caring. He's also 17 years older than I…

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3967 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm about to introduce my family to a man I'd like to be with. He's sweet and caring. He's also 17 years older than I. My parents are liberal but I think even they'll balk at the age difference. I want my parents to accept him but I have no idea how I should tell my parents I'd ... (87 words)

I'm wondering how or where a 47 year old women can find suitable men to date?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

10 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm wondering how or where a 47 year old women can find suitable men to date? I've been alone for over 16 years - no dates, no sex, no prospects. When my children were younger, I used to go to the "weekend daddy" places -Chucky Cheese, the zoo - spots where divorced d... (215 words)