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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My fiancée is having a stroppy moment over something seemingly small, why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts n uncles, I have been with my fiancée for three years now, shes 23 im 26. The other night I told her that I was going to Bath in Somerset to maintain some equipment for a few nights and I said that I would like to be in my own bed when I get back, she was ok with ... (350 words)

Why can I not express interest in the guys that I actually like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3954 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Why can I not express interest in the guys that I actually like? I'm a fairly confident woman. I have lots of male friends. I'm a flirt and pretty easy to get on with - except with one type of guy. The ones I fall for. Tonight I have made 3 dates with men I barely know o... (198 words)

Is he my boyfriend? Does he want to be my boyfriend? Is it too early to even bring that up after one month of dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I'm 24 years old and have never been in a relationship. But three weeks ago, I met this guy, and we've been dating since (1-2 times a week). Things are going great. We get along, we laugh together, and we've had sex (he was my first...). When I told him I ... (361 words)

S true love real or do you think people generally 'settle' with a nice partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3947 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have posted about this previously but I'm still in the same predicament. Basically, I am currently dating a lovely guy but I'm really unsure of my feelings for him. We met online but decided to be friends (he was keen, I didn't feel it 100 percent). I've been ... (316 words)

I want my wife to give me a break! I am NOT looking at other women!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age - My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, wherever, she will accuse me of looking at another women, even though I most certainly am not, and most of the time don't even know who she is referring to until I really do look! Or sometime... (295 words)

What can I do to make him respect me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years and we have talked about marriage. Initially when we went out together in public his eyes were on me, but for the past year he has had a wandering eye and will look women up and down (with his sunglasses on), or stare at women, ... (547 words)

How do I ask a girl I like out on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl at College but not entirely sure she feels the same. We get on really well and talk all the time. However, I have only known her for around three months because she started the course I'm doing at the same time. So, I'm not entirely sure what the best ... (182 words)

Do I tell him? I'd like to forgive and forget but I'm pregnant by him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I reconnected with an old family friend this past summer. we began talking a lot and became really close. eventually he asked me to be his gf. we live in different states so he flew me out to visit for a few weeks. when I returned, we hardly lasted a week. there were some ... (231 words)

Am I wrong for disliking my sister?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Am I wrong for this? I'm starting to not like my sister. She is always gossiping about someone and she has nothing positive to say about anything. I hate it when people clean other people's closet and not their's. I'm college student looking to go to medical school and even ... (113 words)

My confidence has really taken a hit, what can I do to bring myself up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, so not really sure what the question is, but I feel just awful. After trying online dating my confidence has hit rock bottom. I joined in the beginning of December 2013 and straight away hit it off with a bloke (somewhat older then myself). I met up with him a week ... (382 words)

My crush sends me mixed signs!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys There's this guy that keeps sending me mixed messages. A close friend of his hinted me that he has a thing for me but whenever I try to make a flirty move he backs off and tells me hes tired or its been a long day and cuts the conversation short. This happens in perso... (233 words)

I found out my boyfriend has profiles on swingers' sites!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my boyfriend has a profile (or three!) up on swingers sex sites "looking for fun" and stating that he's single. Now he swears they are from years ago when he was single and in fairness to him, it was 2009 when the accounts were created. I went to log into an old ... (173 words)

Would telling her I find her attractive be a better way to move things forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid I was wondering if it is good idea to tell a girl you like her if you want to move things forward with her . I know the girl for about three months and I want to take things forward by telling her how I feel. I have decided to do it in a week when I meet ... (113 words)

My husband only sees me as a 'wife,' not as a friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my husband recently got married and recently I feel he has stopped seeing me as just his wife rather than wife and best friend. Whenever we do ANYTHING fun he calls up his buddies and invited them to join us. For example, the other weekend I took him to a favourit... (304 words)

I don't want to kiss my BF because of his bad breath! What should I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3955 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So when me and my bf got together, there were no problems, 'cos we hadn't kissed until three days ago. When we kissed, I couldn't help gagging at how horrible his breath tasted. I didn't tell him, though. So I played along. We kissed regularly and each time, his breath was horr... (115 words)

Should I contact my ex? It's 6 months since I finished the relationship, and this would have been our 6 year anniversary.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts, I'm feeling a little low. I was in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We were childhood sweethearts and got to together at the age of 17. I loved him to pieces but the relationship fizzled out after around the 4th year. We stayed together our of love, habit, ... (376 words)

If she isn't hiding anything, why the secrecy? Why the distance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. Our relationship has been great and really seems to have a potential future, but my girlfriends behavior troubles me... Yesterday she mentioned that she was out with a friend. I'm not one to pry, but I happened to ask her which... (434 words)

Help! Guy's actions towards me are confusing!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

Ewww!!! It became apparent pretty soon into our first telephone call that he was masturbating at the same time!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I had been building a 'relationship' with a guy online for about 2 months which started with just messaging, then we emailed, then text...eventually when I felt confident enough we spoke on the mobile phone yesterday. It became apparent pretty soon into our first telephone ... (221 words)

Drunken mistake with a colleague. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...in my place of work there is this guy I work with who I talk to almost al the time at work but now this Friday me and my collegues went out for a drink and we really got wasted that I don't remember most of the things about later that night.. But I slept over at this guy ... (134 words)

Falling in love with a man who might have to move away. We discussed it, but what did he mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3907 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I started dating a man about three months ago. We see each other almost every week-end. We'll spend most of it together. The week-ends usually consists of hours of conversation, laughing really hard, watching movies, sex, eating, driving, laughing, and more sex. Basically our ... (318 words)

Has he lost interest after our date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused please help! I've seen this guy around for years now, I've never actually met him til recently we've been texting non stop flirting, he was my valentine which was the first time we've hung out. And we've talked recently, we went to the movies and had a couple of ... (136 words)

The more time I go being frustrated, the more arseholes I attract & the more depressed I get. What am I doing wrong? Should I lower my standards?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm completely confused. I need help figuing out what I want. It's been 7 months since I've been in a relationship and had sex. Which isn't long I know but I've got a high sex drive and I'm very hormonal.. I'm 23 and completely sexually frustrated and delt with it for m... (306 words)

Do I love him? Does he love me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So me and my step cousin are really close. We clicked the moment my mum got married to his uncle. We'd always stuck together in everything, and at school, (he goes to the same school as me,) we always partner up for projects. We also hang around together during break and ... (172 words)

I do love her with my all heart, but what can I do about her cousin with his wandering hands? She will not give me a straight answer.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'll try to keep it short, sacrificing a lot of the details so bear with me. My GF and her female cousins have had/have an intimate relationship with a male cousin. Proven thanks to people leaving their facebook messages open for all to see.... so what's been going on is that... (256 words)

Almost certain she does like me and I like her. But what can I do? She became distant after discovering her friend likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

20 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I need some help. I met a girl at college and we got on really well we'd talk outside college quite often and she'd even text me when I was at work asking how it was going. Then she found out that one of her friends who's in our friend group likes me and ever sinc... (319 words)

I have 2 ongoing crushes, but I want none. How do I sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

20 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupid Hey I'm 15 years old and still in high school and I have boy troubles. I have a crush on this boy (let's call him G) and I never felt this way about a guy before, because all the other guys in my school are jerks! The weird thing is that he came to my school in ... (329 words)