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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He turned me down for a date so what is with his new attitude toward me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I asked a guy out a while back and he politely declined me, so I kind of accepted it and got on with things. I still liked him, but I'd understood that he didn't feel the same way, so I never mentioned it again. About two weeks ago, though, his attitude towards me changed.... (98 words)

My roommate crushed my self-esteem because he picked her over me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I came to London to study a short course. I found a roommate (flatmate as they call them here) for a month out of the three months I'll be here and found him extremely attractive. We chatted a lot before I moved in and it became something a bit romantic. He really lead me on ... (807 words)

Help! Does he like me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy I work with but I can't tell if he really likes me. I'm pretty sure most days but then my insecurity about my looks makes me doubt it. He is always helping me and talking to me we laugh and joke for hours and he always seems to be where I am. We message ... (116 words)

Lonely and friendless and looking for advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a young female and my problem is I don't really have any friends. I never had a lot of friends even back when I was in High School. I had maybe 3 or 4 friends but they ended up turning on me and started bullying me. My High School was actually a really big school and h... (303 words)

Feeling guilty about bad decisions I've made

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I'm in a relationship with a 25 year old man who I am breaking up with on Saturday. I saw controlling signs before but now I've really seen them, I actually feel afraid of him. We have only been together for 3 months and had sex 1 month in because ... (270 words)

Why would someone want to throw their future away?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - This isn't a problem as such, but its something i've been pondering on for a really long time and I wondered if maybe anyone here could give their own opinion on it. I live in a very small town, there isn't too much to do here and ther... (554 words)

Why does my friend hate my crush so much that she's making me choose either her or him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - so i really like this guy. i think he's interested in me too. he's always really nice, buys me things, and on the last valentines day, he sent me a card with 35 kisses. i counted them, i'm weird i know. but anyway, he's always nice to me, and he's nice to my friends too. but ... (161 words)

How to get this online guy to back off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I've been online dating for about 8 months now, have only met up with 3 people in that time and its never really gone past 1st or 2nd dates. I ended up talking to someone for about 5 weeks who seemed to match my sense of humour and personality wise was really ... (235 words)

My obsession with his ex is ruining our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner had a child with an ex who he was with for 7 years. When he met her she was actually living with a woman and left her husband of her two children for the woman. Then she moved on to my partner and they had a child together also. When we first got together he told... (411 words)

Am I too boring and weird to ever get a girlfriend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been thinking about future relationships and stuff, and it's just hit me that even if I did get a girlfriend, I would have no idea what to do with her. I do not like the bar or club scene at all. I cannot and do not like to dance and the thought of hanging out at s... (175 words)

Sex, dating and relationship. When should we have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've being dating a girl for four months and we've had nice times and whenever I am away from her and I don't call for a day, she gets angry with me or suspects me of having another girlfriend. She has that soft spot, very pretty and respectful and also a good poet. I writ... (364 words)

I don't like hanging out with my boyfriend's friends and a woman he has history with. How should we deal with this and move forwards?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We are both late twenties and I love him with all of my heart. I know he is the one for me and we both have expressed that. I get a little anxious with his friends though. One reason is they are basically around the ... (527 words)

After being my girlfriend's rock for a year, she now feels secure but I don't! . Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been having some issues from the past come back up and rear their head in my relationship. I don't particularly know how to deal with them. I've been with my gf for about a year and a half. The last six months have been stable and great. But the first year were practi... (385 words)

Is he blowing me off or am I reading too much into it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been on numerous dates and this particular date was amazing. The guy was cute, shy, and funny (he's also busy as an actor, which I dont mind because Im one too!). After the date he was sweet,he wanted to kiss me but I said not now, he was fine with that with which he re... (207 words)

Not ready for relationship but there's a guy I fancy....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm just out of a 10 year relationship and enjoying time sorting out stuff for myself and building a new life of my own, not ready for a relationship for a good while with anybody, but that doesn't stop me being attracted to guys. So there's 1 in particular, and I think ther... (359 words)

Crush on my step brother's friend but not sure how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a huge crush on my step brothers friend sometimes he shows me that he cares other times its like I'm invisible he asked for my number but he has never called. He complements me a lot in my brothers absence but when my brother is around he doesn't talk to me and when he ... (63 words)

I'm not sure if my boyfriend is a manipulator or not?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm not sure if my boyfriend would be considered an emotional psychopath/manipulater. I am quite insecure and hyper vigilant so I'm not sure if I'm being paranoid or not. He is a personal trainer and has told me that he has to use some form of manipulation to ... (192 words)

My savings are now 1/2 of what they were because b/f borrowed money for 14 months! He's always drunk and wont talk to me about paying me back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I really don't know what to do about my situation. My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years borrowed money every month for 14 months. My savings are now 1/2 what they were. About once or twice a week if I phone him in the evenings he is drunk, slurred speech, not making sense etc. He does ... (160 words)

She has a boyfriend so is she just playing with me to get attention?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

6 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - It's driving me insane because she has a boyfriend (who I know) and she is the only girl I've ever truly liked. She is extremely intelligent, hard working, kind, selfless, and unique.I've thought about her every single day since I first saw her (Not obsessively , I have my own ... (278 words)

My crush..is it straight? gay? Just not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this guy at work I have a crush on. Thing is, idk if he is gay. We are very good friends but I have gotten to a point to when I am around him. I flirt. I tell him I like him, that he is cute and even wanna have sex with him but he dont say anything. He smiles ... (315 words)

For nine years I believed my lover was married but I've recently learned he isn't

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I began this relationship with my lover over 9 years ago and up until a 2 weeks ago believed that he was married because he told me so. He revealed in an online conversation that he was never legally married to the woman he claimed as his wife. Now I'm not sure what to do? I... (80 words)

Does anyone else ever feel like the ugly friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all I was wondering if anyone ever feels like the "ugly friend?" I am so tired of being the ugly friend and having such pretty friends. It makes me feel like crap. My friend is so pretty and all the guys like her and stare at her. Please don't think I'm jealous, I'm just... (119 words)

Whenever a boyfriend even mentions anal sex I become furious

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - i don't know what is wrong with me, but whenever any of my past partners so much as suggests anything to do with anal sex i get infuriated and not even in an outwards manner but rather in a passive aggressive way. i cannot quiet put my finger on it, i don't know what makes me ... (324 words)

Now that I'm engaged something seems off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for about 3 years, 7 months. We got engaged last week (I know, congrats!) but I'm starting to feel weird now. I love him to death and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him but I'm starting to feel... TOO comfortable. Know wha... (251 words)

My boyfriend keeps promising me big gifts but gets me nothing

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

6 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend told me throughout our entire first year that he had a huge birthday surprise for me... along comes my birthday Jan 29 and he just called me in the morning and then never came over (even though he promised). His reasoning was that he wasn't allowed to because of ... (176 words)