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writes:Hey how's it going? Thanks for reading this. I am a 23 year old male and I like this cashier from my job. She is 19 and a freshman in college. I have never spoken one word to her. I added her on facebook and I'm afraid I've already come off as an old creep. It has been a day and a half and still hasn't accepted the friend request. I was going to send a message but didn't know if I should. Was just basically wanting some opinions on what to do. It's just hard to approach her at work seeing as she is always busy and I didn't want to make it awkward at work. Thanks for your time.
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reader, bing10  +, writes (5 February 2014):
just ask her if she wants to go for a coffie after work. if she she says yes, when you're having the coffie complement her and also get to know her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2014): next time u see her, say hi. keep doing that, and when it seems like no biggy saying hi to her, ask her if she wants to go for a coffee in your lunchbreak or any break if u have one. maybe she hasn't been on facebook for a while. maybe thats why she hasn't accepted the friend request. but anyway, try talking to her. dont go straight in to asking her out. shes gotta know u first, yeah? please tell me if my advice worked. i'm 10 years younger then you btw. sorry, just had to add that. anyways gud luck with it all, and make sure you send a followup!
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reader, Adeboyefa  +, writes (4 February 2014):
 Don't rush things. Wait until she has accepted your friend request and you have been chatting for months. This will also allow you to study her character (through her posts and comments) and also allow her to feel free with you before you ask her out. Best of luck.
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