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Archived questions from: 15 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My holiday fling has stopped replying .....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy a couple of weeks back while i was on vacation. we had a kind of a fling for a couple of days. he seemed super cool, super funny, and we had a great time together. after i got home we messaged each other a bit, and i thought there was a chance we might arrange to ... (123 words)

Grandparent died, boyfriend left and I had a melt down at work!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Im hoping for some good advice regarding my current situation. Just recently I lost my last grandparent, who I loved very much and meant the world to me. I am overcome with grief. today, my partner walked out saying he was fed up of my `diva like` ways(not too sure what he ... (224 words)

After a year of dating he is pressuring me to tell him where I live.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been seeing this guy for almost an year, I know where he lives but he doesn't know where I live because he hadn't been interested but now he won't see me again untill I take him to my place. Why the sudden inerest? Problem is that he is pressuring me. Thankyou ... (54 words)

He's older, divorced, and giving me mixed messages about our arrangement!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm seeing a guy who constantly gives me mixed messages, he's older, divorced and has two kids, we've been seeing each other just under three months. It started off with the intention of being a FWB arrangement, but that quickly changed, long story short, we had been seeing ... (588 words)

She knew I liked her, ignored me for a year, and is now engaged to someone else. Why message me now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So after being ignored by a girl for a year because I told her that I liked her. She has since gotten engaged she sends me a random faceb00k message after a year..."Hi. How you doing?". I reply simply..."I am OK, and u?". She replies..."all good". So I began wondering where th... (95 words)

I want to talk to her but am afraid of looking desperate and getting friendzoned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3960 days ago

15 February 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey guys... Another dilemma here. There's this friend of mine I have some feelings for but the past couple of days I've really been doubting myself and any chance of a relationship. I want to talk to her but I feel like I'll just end up looking desperate if I continue. I don't ... (198 words)

My LDR complains that I have a mixed personality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - It's a long distance relationship. I met this guy online and I've fallen in love with him. He use to text me everyday but for two weeks now, the texting has stopped. When he called this week he complained that I have a mixed personality and if I don't change he'll leave me ... (117 words)

Do you have to hear the word love to be loved?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 February 2014 (M)

age - Hi, well I said those magical words lastnite after watching the notebook, we been seeing each other for over eight years, I broke up with her couple of years ago, for a few months, cause she never says it back, but we got back together, she said it once, an not since. I always ... (216 words)

I'm attracted to a male friend who doesn't feel the same about me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help!I have a male friend who I am attracted to more than he is attracted to me, he is flaky though and sometimes flirtatious then puts it back on friendship level. He makes no secret of his interests in other women and I make no secret of only being interested in him! He... (170 words)

I feel I let my boyfriend down after he made an effort for Valentines Day. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel useless, I let my boyfriend down. What should I do?. I don't know if he will forgive me. He knew I haven't been well for a few days, but for some reason, he still bought lots of food for Valentine's day, and bought me some presents. Earlier in the day, it sounded like he ... (399 words)

The guy I've been dating is torn between taking things further with me or his female best friend. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Really need help So since early January I have been seeing this lovely guy, and we both really like each other and everything has been going so well but now just as we are on the verge of becoming boyfriend and girlfriend to one another he has told me that his best friend ... (229 words)

How can I be intimate with my fiancé without upsetting my daughter? She hears us despite us being quiet.

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, need help on this one! This is sort of embarrasing but I need someone to tell me what I should do. I have 3 children from my last marriage. I am widowed. I finally meet a wonderful man, and we are engaged to be married in July. I have a cape cod style house, where our bedr... (162 words)

Am I reading these signs correctly? Is she being friendly or flirtatious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm lesbian and find this other lady gorgeous. Something about her drew me to her so I've been trying to find subtle reasons to be around her. We always give each other eye contact and even hold it and smile. Often times she talks with me she finds reasons to touch me and ... (292 words)

24 and never had a girlfriend. Where do I start?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - This fact has made me very depressed and I have felt this way for a long time. I have never had a girlfriend or even had many friends that are girls. In fact I don't have many friends at all. I have one brother and though we are close in age, we never did much together... (341 words)

Feeling rejected by boyfriend who just sends texts for holidays, birthday and Valentines day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3962 days ago

15 February 2014 (?) age 51-59 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 17 months. I cannot stand any type of holiday anymore and would just like to sleep thru them all! He has said Happy Birthday to me, in 2012 he got me a knife which disappeared from my car shortly after... I was delivering pizza at night in ... (177 words)

.Women I am attracted to run when they learn I am also involved with a man

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3959 days ago

15 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone... I'm having some struggles with my sexuality/sexual identity. I am a female, and I am in love with a man. We plan on getting married, we are both very attracted to one another and we're super happy. The thing is, I am also very attracted to women. My partner ... (151 words)

I am in love with him, I think he is gay, but I am not sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3961 days ago

15 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I have a problem that I have posted about on here before. It has been years, so hopefully I'n not bothering anyone again with the same question. I am a 20 year old gay (possibly bi?) male. I am in love with one of my sightly younger best friends, and I have been for ... (551 words)