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Archived questions from: 19 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Shy, friendly, or Friendzoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So bear with me its a little bit of a long story. I recently (3 months ago) started a new job. I made fast friends with one of the guys I work with. He's 3 years older than me (21). Well every day that we work together he is always super helpful and we talk for hours about ... (286 words)

Why is this position we use still causing me problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have regular sex, we like to try different positions but our favourite is usually cowgirl where I am on top of him. When we first tried this position I had never done it I wasn't any good and he was doing most of the work. I thought it was just because I had ... (91 words)

I'm lucky if I get a text every two or three days

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been seeing my boyfriend since august. Have been official since december. When were together when were not i dont hear from him. In previous relationships i have heard from my partner at least once per day, even if its just dropping me a text. When we first got together we ... (123 words)

Do I get all these obsessions because I have an itch that was never scratched?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 25 and I've had an ongoing problem for over 10 years now that is only getting worse instead of better. I get obsessions with guys, usually ones I don't know on a personal level. The most recent one was my last supervisor, for example. I knew him on a professional level, but ... (553 words)

I made great plans but now I'm having second thoughts about everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm currently in my final year at college (year 13) studying Media and Film, I have also applied for universities and have had all 5 offers back to study Journalism. The University I have chosen as my first choice is Sunderland, which is about 2 hours away from where I ... (235 words)

Should I tell my friend I've fallen for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I have recently fallen in love with this girl who is 3 years older than me. We have known each other for 9+ years. Her brother is my best friend. When we were younger, we were like brother and sister, now we have switched to being close friends, but I have developed ... (223 words)

His excuses are all legit, but I kinda want to put my foot down

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Is he nervous or uninterested? I'm in tears right now :( I just don't know what to do anymore. Theres a guy who i like so much, you know when you just click with someone. I've known him for about 3 years and weve always thought each other were good looking, but he never ... (512 words)

She broke up with me, acts like we're still in a relationship, but is talking to other guys

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend broke up with me after a year of being together. We moved in together after three months of being together so we have a close bond. My ex states that she doesnt think she loves me enough and that she isn't happy within herself so she can't love anyone. She says ... (350 words)

My boyfriend won't have sex with me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years. We are both 22.We used to have a great sex life but over the last 6 months, he doesnt want sex with me. I'd say this has happened gradually, before I had hope but now I know it's useless. He says he's tired, not in the mood, ... (236 words)

Shut my friends out because of my relationship

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Since getting with my boyfriend in August 2013, I've hardly seen my friends. I used to see them almost every weekend, we would go out and have drinks and have a laugh. I miss some of them alot but I'm too stubborn to admit I've been in the wrong as I'm in my first relationship. ... (119 words)

Does asking for pictures make him a bad guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't believe it has come to this again. Last week a met this guy through Uni and instantly started messaging me on Facebook once he tracked me down. And has not stopped since. He was shaping into such a nice guy, even invited me out for drinks, introduced me to his fri... (448 words)

I want him as a friend on FB but I don't know what's up with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - A boy and me are friends on FB for last three years.he wanted to meet me five times in two years ...But I did not.after three years and after a huge gap of communication between us he wanted to meet me again...and this time i did...well after I met him...he tried to tell me ... (314 words)

Is she disinterested, trying to get my attention, or make me jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

19 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello Cupid I was wondering what are ways that girls use to make you jealous or seek your attention!How do you know they are just being disinterested or making you jealous ? I am very social person so I hang around lots of different people so the girl I'm dating is acting... (254 words)

Partner says he wants to be with me forever but has "itches that need scratching" with other women.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my partner for 5 years. We met at uni. It's a long distance relationship but we are planning in moving in together this year. We are both each other's first sexual partners. I was in a long term relationship before but never had intercourse. He hadn't dated any... (359 words)

I feel lonely if I don't see my new boyfriend for a few days, and I want to spend all my time with him. Is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 weeks now. Trouble is I want to see him every day and spend all my days and nights with him. If I don't see him for more than 2 days I start to feel lonely. Is this normal?... (46 words)

Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at me like she would like to ... (158 words)

I am confused as to which one to choose!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Hello Cupids. I have been singlr for over a year and I must say it has not been easy. I have quite a number of guys on my neck right now but I am not interested in some of them because my plan right now is to get into a serious relationship as I have spent all my time in tacky ... (648 words)

My parents or my boyfriend? I feel like my parents are making me choose!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3957 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, my name is Alexis and I have been dating my boyfriend for five years. My mom works in the same school that I go to and a year ago my boyfriend went into rehab for smoking weed and just doing stupid things that he shouldn't have done. During the time that he was away I ... (412 words)

How do we get her to back off already? She's not really a mean, vindictive person but she is sure causing a lot of trouble!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - This sounds snotty, but there's this girl who is constantly trying to butt in to our group of friends even though we try to give her kind hints that she really just doesn't fit in. At first, we tried to give her a chance. She sat down with us at lunch one day and even tho... (1060 words)

Any good stories about threesomes?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Anybody have threesome (MFF in my case) SUCCESS stories? You read about how most relationships fall apart after a threesome but surely this is because it was an attempt to save an already dying marriage? Obviously there would be some that couldn't handle it but they can't a... (66 words)

Did I scare her off when I confessed she was my first kiss?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So, I'm a 19 YOM and I went on my first legitimate date on Friday. Was girl I'd known for a while, thought she was cute, just never thought I'd date her. Anyways, I ask her out last minute, we go out and have a great time. She seemed to have a great time, anyways. Smile always ... (442 words)

I have an uneasy feeling about my husband's use of Cialis and his locked cell phone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2495 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has been secretly taking cialis for some time now. At first my brother in law would give them to him, but as of July last year he has a prescription. Problem is, he uses them even when we are not having sex. I found one in his pocket, he carries them around in his ... (186 words)

I want to talk to this girl but don't want to just be "one of her guys"

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - This past weekend I was approached at a party by a girl from my college that I have known about since last year. She is very attractive and is personally way out of my league. I came up with some bullshit excuse as to why I don't really talk to her and how I didn't want to talk ... (685 words)

Is my husband trying to get the custody of my child?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I and my husband are getting divorce a "friendly" one! we got help from a mediator,so no lawyer. My husban is a plaintiff which the mediator said it doesnt matter but I felt in some ways she has my husbans's side! close to the court day i goft my financial paper which I ... (159 words)

I cheated - is there any way to fix this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3956 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been dating my boyfriend that's about 8 years older than me for over two years now. For the last six months or so, I feel like our relationship has been quite stale and stagnate. I have learned to accept this because he is in his 30s and I'm in my early 20s. For the ... (515 words)

How can we get past my inability to orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3958 days ago

19 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I lost my virginity a little over a year ago to my boyfriend, and since then we've had sex at least 100 times. I love and enjoy being intimate with him in that way, however... I've never been able to achieve orgasm. I never worried too much about it, as I didn't want to o... (483 words)

Bi Male Attracted to Straight Male

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

19 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I am a 19 year old bisexual guy with very few friends, and the friends I have are all straight guys. Recently, I have found myself very attracted sexually and romantically to one of my straight friends. When we'd drink, we usually end up in the same bed together... (88 words)