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Archived questions from: 8 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Can this sexless marriage be repaired?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 15 years and most of it has been sexless. My husband works very hard and travels often. I have approached the subject often and things have not changed. It is a little ironic. Because it is usually the husband who is complaining of too little sex in the ... (102 words)

Can you do fine without friends?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, so I'll try to make this as simple as I can. I have a problem I'd like to talk about here and get advice, but also have a few questions. My questions basically has to do with friendships and people. How important is friendship? What do you do when you don't h... (430 words)

Why the sudden drop in contact?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a man for about 8 months. Since we got together, we have chatted every day-usually all day, everyday (facebook chat, skype, phone calls, text) We live several states apart, so we've only seen each other in person a few times. The relationship is pretty ... (215 words)

He doesn't contribute anything but criticism

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here is the story Aunts. I have been with my partner for 4 years. we Live Together and until towards the end of last year everything seemed fine with us. recently though everything he does/or doesnt do rather irritates the life out of me. he no longer comes to bed at n... (327 words)

How can I get over this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy that I've known for a few months . I was in a 3 year relationship with my ex. When he broke it off I was devastated. When I met the new guy, my pain went away and now I can't stop thinking about this jerk.Most would think he's unattractive.He's such a jerk.He ... (323 words)

Awkward ending to a night out with the guy I used to date. Should I contact him or did I blow it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Have I blown it with this man, and should I contact him or wait and see if I bump into him? I briefly went out with this man last year. I wouldn't exactly call him an ex, we didn't date for long, and we didn't have sex.He still contacts me from time to time. I have a boyfrie... (654 words)

Do women ever regret leaving a nice guy and going back to their abusive exes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

8 February 2014 (M)

age - Why do some women, do not like romance, they say they would like to meet a nice guy , but when they do, they go back to the guy before, who was mentally, an abusesive, to them? when you start going out ,they tell you how bad their ex was to them, an they seem so very nice, an... (102 words)

I feel he prefers porn to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Been married for three years have a two year old girl just caught my husband looking at pornographers behind my back and lying to me for a year or more.he has already been caught a year ago and promised not to.he knows how bad it hurts me in the past years we both have changed ... (169 words)

You wouldn't leave if you were in love, right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Idk if he loves me. Lots of points please listen and please help me. First during are 15 years he left me 3 times says he had good reasons now i dont think guys people leave the ones they love unless they dont love them. In serious cases like abuse or cheating then yes people ... (218 words)

New relationship or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I have a question about how to handle a guy I'm sort of seeing. It is really confusing and I think there are a number of reasons why. I met him through a friend just over a month ago. We hit it off right away, got a bit drunk, and ended up making out that night. ... (219 words)

Will a fwb relationship help me gain confidence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Cupids, I was wondering if you could help me out. This is the age old Friends with Benefits question. I'm 18 and me and this lad like each other but neither willing to commit to a relationship. We've hung out and messed around a bit and he proposed FwB saying that... (176 words)

I cant provide money for us since I can't escourt so should I end things?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - K this is pretty serious. We've been together almost a year, we are both head over heels in love. I asked him to marry me he said yes. Hes a tattoo artist Im 25 hes 47. We share symptoms, we're twin flames. Recently we have been having some money issues and almost lost our... (217 words)

How can I be there for my friend without invading his space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone I met a guy 30 years ago (I'm now in my early 40s) and developed strong feelings for him over the years but thought they were not returned and so moved on, met and married a wonderful man. The guy I liked back then, let's call him B, also married and years later ... (840 words)

Do I avoid sex on Valentine's Day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is unable to orgasm through me touching him or a blow job. He is in his late forties. I have tried varying all techniques, making sure the situation is right...etc, etc. He seems to be adverse to the idea of him ejaculating on me (masturbating on me...you know what ... (96 words)

Should I let my husband's co-worker know I know she likes him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - About 2 weeks ago I went to my husbands office holiday party. It was a fun night. However, it was also the first time I met my husbands new secretary. They both started at about the same time in new positions so I understand the way they must depend on each other at work. ... (503 words)

My boyfriend is talking marriage, but expects us to live with his family.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had been together for 4 years and he gave me hint to propose me soon. We've discussed about marriage before and yesterday he asked me to look for bedroom design that I like. Problem is, he's the only son in his family and he told me before that we would li... (256 words)

I can't get the image of him and his ex out of my head!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

8 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Having a little bit of boyfriend trouble. I'm 21, only one month into my first relationship. the other night before we went to bed my boyfriend told me that hed like me to meet his friends from home, but he's worried that they would tell me "all sorts of bad things abou... (308 words)