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Archived questions from: 3 February, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'd like to know the truth. So how can I find out if my ex is happy or unhappy in his new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3968 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Two years ago I met my current bf. He was a friend of my brothers and we were total opposites. I wasn't interested in dating at the time. I was just ending a long term relationship with my ex who happened to be the father of my one year old son. Even though I wasn't interes... (348 words)

He did a search on "how to cheat on your girlfriend"!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I know what a lot of the answers will be from this, however I'd love to get some different opinions. I have been cheated on in my one other past relationship and that had seriously caused me some trust issues. I have been with my man now for a year - we live together... (607 words)

Dating a shy guy, or is he just not interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (?) age 36-40 - Me and this guy have been in touch for nearly 2 months, from the first day we met. After spending loads of time talking to eachother online, we finally had our very first date the other night. He was very shy, considering him being 34 and me 25, I was quite surprised how shy he ... (353 words)

Can a guy get feelings for FWB?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been best friends with this guy for 10 years, even dated for a few days almost a year ago (He broke up with me). Recently we've decided that we want to sleep together, making a friends with benefits, though he told me that he doesn't change (I asked him if our friendship ... (98 words)

Don't want to misrepresent myself but ...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3964 days ago

3 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 25 male and trying online dating I am short most of the woman are taller than me I have no problem dating taller women but I have heard that most women won't date a shorter men I don't know how true this is. I know complete honesty is important when dating, should I put ... (83 words)

I feel like a loner loser

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 20 years old and a student at a community college. I have never had many friends, even in high school. And at a college like mine, there's really not much going on at all and people just like to get their classes over with and leave, which is understandable. It's not really ... (274 words)

Does she treat me like this because she knows I love her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for almost a year. When we first started it was GREAT but then everything started going down. For one she has a 1 year old puppy which I knew when I met her and did not have problem with it. But as the relationship got more ... (233 words)

Should I forgive again? Can I trust him again?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am trying to gain clarity on my relationship and figure out what to do... I have asked many friends for their advice, but realize that they all have some kind of biased opinions (they are, after all, close friends), so I need an objective and unbiased point of view from you ... (698 words)

Would it be best to keep my sexuality to myself for now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I've finally come to terms with my own sexuality as being gay, and I feel as if my parents already have an idea however they're always making a joke of it and have made it quite known that it's not something they agree with! Is it wrong to not tell them? As this would be id... (131 words)

He threatened that tomorrow either she's gone or he's gone. Any advice would help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello and thanks I have been married 22 yrs. I got married young. Its been abit of a roller coaster at times but somehow I stayed. My husband can be very mean when he drinks. He calls me names points his finger in my face I tell him to stop. When hes sober hes usually nice... (197 words)

Am I asking for too much of his time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for 4 months already. But my family and friends both feel that this guy is not right for me because he does not see me as an important person in his life. Part of me knows that, but the other part of me does not want to face reality because I want to ... (205 words)

How do I get myself together and keep her from feeling emotionally and sexually rejected?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I get strong performance anxiety when I go to have sex with a girl for the first time. Consequently, I can't achieve an erection about 80% of the time. Usually I get good reactions, the girls are patient. We take a time out, do something else, eventually I get horny and we have ... (300 words)

I wish I had given him my number, now what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Aunties and Uncles!!! I have been working in an office for the last two years and have been single for about 8 months. About 10 months ago a new manager started at work. At first i hated him, he was arrogant, rude and loud. He asked me out when he first started but i ... (642 words)

I suffer from premature climaxing, any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a married women in my 30's and I suffer from premature climaxing... My husband and I don't have sex that often (once a week) due to family commitments and work and because of this I'm all pent up with desire, as soon as my husband enters me I climax straight away ... (133 words)

What's happened to my long-distance friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hey I met a guy online and ever since that we have been friends for 5 years recently I went to his country to see him. through our friendship he has always told me he has feelings for me and he loves and respects me saying if you were here with me it would be amazing etc..so I ... (163 words)

Since the event I just can't bounce back, is there something wrong with me or is this just hormonal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't feel happy in my life at the moment. I'm in University and I have everything going for me I just need to work for the opportunities but I am just not happy. I push people away ALL the time, I blow up the tiniest problems and create arguments basically because I ... (253 words)

Do I still have a chance at attracting some 18-29 girl? Even if it's just to have as a friend?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3972 days ago

3 February 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I'm 30 years old and I look at my life and feel like the only people I have in it are older people (my family and friends of my father's mostly). Dating-wise, it's gotten to the point where the only attention I ever get is from women at least 20 years my senior, whereas I ... (353 words)

I'm completely confused, does this cuddle and the way he acts mean something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3972 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I've liked this guy for a while, but he has mentioned before that he likes this other girl, she's in a 3 year relationship and has said before that she does not see him in that way, both to him and me. Either way I had given hope of things ever happening betwee... (290 words)

I ruined my boyfriend's life because I didn't lose my virginity to him

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all, my boyfriend and I have been together for 3years 3months, just recently he found out the guy I lost my virginity to was 20yr old and I was only 16, I regret it completely and know it was a huge mistake when I was immature young and drunk. He lost his virginity to me ... (229 words)

Boyfriend's comment has me crying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I was texting my boyfriend (as we do almost continuously) after he got back from the bar. I'm sure he was a little tipsy. But randomly, in the middle of a comment about how I thought he was attractive, he brought up that he was worried I was in love with the idea of being ... (315 words)

Does she really care for me more than the other guy? Did she just make a mistake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Let me wrap things up. I am paranoid so I'll address the girl as "O" , me as "X" and HIM as "Y" So I met "O" 4 months ago in a nightclub. The moment I saw her I knew I wanted to be with that girl, not forever (because i dont like the sound of it) , but ALWAYS. We started talki... (1001 words)

I can't move on I love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3973 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear agony aunt I really need help. I met a guy and we broke up in less than two month. He use to contact me but it wad now and then. He broke up with me because he said he didnt know what he wanted. After 5 month being seperated i contacted him and told him that i love him and ... (224 words)

Did he use me or want a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3974 days ago

3 February 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm trying to work out whether the guy I had been seeing recently used me or if he generally wanted a relationship. Basically, I had come out of a bad relationship, and he had just been divorced. He is 14 years older, but I never saw that as an issue. I met him nearly a yea... (377 words)