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Archived questions from: 6 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

People keep walking out of my life, and I don't know how to deal with it any more. Advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I need some serious advice. And I don't know what to do any more. Over the last ten days I have lost a lot of people from my life, and even though I enjoy my own company I am starting to get the point where I don't really have many people in my life. ... (621 words)

How do I cope? My fiance has told me she's coming to see me to break things off

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3734 days ago

6 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My fiance of four and a half years has told me that she wants to end things. Shed coming to see me in a few weeks to end it in person. her reasons are that she says her feelings have changed and that she no longer gets excited wen she sees me and that she doesn't miss me when ... (144 words)

How do I get the huge crush I have on an actor out of my head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, I know this is stupid, and This is very embarassing... I have been watching a new TV series, and I have a HUGE crush on one of the actors, who is British and fairly famous. Problem is, I've let myself dream about this guy so much that my real life boyfriend doesn'... (129 words)

Is our perception of ourselves true a lot of the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you tell whether or not you're attractive? Is there any way to know for sure? I ask because I know we see ourselves different to how others see us. Also some days we feel better about ourselves than others. How do we know if what we feel is accurate? I've heard of ... (394 words)

Guy on internet dating website hasn't written in a week, and only checks in when I write him, WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I started corresponding with this guy on Okcupid about three years ago. We wrote to each other long, thoughtful messages and almost went out on a date, but I'd started hitting it off with another guy and eventually dated this other guy for two years, during which the OKC guy ... (253 words)

Boyfriend likes crossdressing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, my name is Jessica. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost four months and recently he has told me he has a cross dressing fetish. He was really scared to tell me about it but I made sure to make him feel like I'll love him no matter what. I've been trying to be ... (199 words)

I have heard of this thing where you "disengage" from your step children, does anyone have advice or experience in this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age - I am having a tough time finding permanent work, my new husband and I don't see eye to eye on many things, and my stepson just moved his girlfriend into our house without even asking us. I am actually considering moving out. I have heard of this thing where you "disengage" ... (305 words)

I love her, but she cheated?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

6 August 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months and had a casual romantic relationship for several months before that. All in all we have been involved for about a year. Before we became officially a couple, there was a guy that constantly flirted with her but she always shot ... (497 words)

I'm worrying about my bf's possible behavior while on his vacation with single friends. Justified thoughts or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello dear Uncles and Aunts, Thanks in advance for reading my story. I'm a little bit (perhaps a lot) insecure about the most stupid things ever and it's driving me crazy. is the next thing I'm going to tell you, justified on my part or.. My bf whom I've been with fo... (597 words)

My family won't support me because I didn't go to university!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My family are stressing me out. I can never please them, no matter what I do. They are serioulsy struggling to accept the fact I didn't go to University. I really didn't want to go- it wasn't the route I wanted to take in life, it was what THEY wanted for me. I have wante... (277 words)

I feel he has lost all affection for me? Or is this always the case.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3746 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with a guy a year and a half and I feel he is not as affectionate as he once was.At the beginning he used to send me cute messages poems, kiss me hold my hand open the door for me buy me flowers dinner sometimes . Now all has changed. Before if we text at ... (318 words)

How does a man relocating to you start over with no problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a good man. He is 35 and I am 33yes old. I have a great job and social life. He has an ok job with the metro system in the UK. He has a 2yr old daughter and I have none. I am ready to settle and he is ready to settle down. We have started talking about marriage mostly b... (300 words)

My mother doesn't approve of the decisions I make. Should I cut off all contact?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Since I was little, my mom was never good to me. She was wicked with me as a child and constantly put me down. She went through a lot of problems and I guess it was just easier for her to take her anger out on me than the real problems she had. She never made me feel lik... (234 words)

My girlfriend's father caught us fooling around and now I'm invited to dinner? I have no idea how to act!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

6 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is 16 and we have been dating for 10 months. From day one her dad has hated me, even her mother sys that mainly he just doesn't want to let go of the thought that his "little girl" isn't so little any more. I have always been respectful of his rules, bring her ... (370 words)

My boyfriend just ended our 2 year relationship. I feel like I"m going out of my mind

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help. My boyfriend of over 2 yrs just decided to end the relationship tonight. We have been back and forth over the last few months so it wasn't a huge surprise but I am hurting so bad. I feel like I could come out of my skin. Please, does anyone have any advice on how ... (89 words)

Phone calls at 4am and her phone never leaves her side. Is she cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (M) age 36-40 - I just wanna get some opinions on if others think my girl could be cheating. We've been together about a year but before me she'd had a string of short term relationships. Things have been good but the last couple of months it's been up and down. A few weeks ago she was lying ... (284 words)

Left me pregnant, got anew catch and texts, he wants to meet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My Ex, who i had been with for 7 years made me pregnant and disappeared without a word. However, he disappeared with the house rent which i had given him to pay and after a while he emailed me.... i will not hear from him or will rarely hear from him. I looked after my ... (490 words)

Family problems are causing too much stress and nightmares! Help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am incredibly stressed out. I've been having nightmares for the past week. I'm waking up 2-3 times a night due to this. When I'm awake I'm feeling nauseous and having stomach pain. I've bitten all my nails down so far I literally can't bite them anymore (not for lack of ... (421 words)

Advice for talking to my parents about being bisexual

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I am bisexual but dont know how to tell my parents. I dont have a clue what their veiws on the LGBT community are and cant find out because i CANT talk to them about love or relationships or that AT ALL so i dunno what 2 do cuz... yeh. Should i tell them? If so, any ideas on ... (62 words)

Am I being a bitter twisted step mum?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3797 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure if I'm being completely pathetic or not about this situation so I think you in advance for any views on this matter I'm married to a man and we have 1 child together we both have 2 older children from previous marriages, my hb was the one to leave his wife (not for... (576 words)

I love her but having a normal relationship with her is impossible

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Can I ask for people's opinions? My relationship of two years ended yesterday and I want to honestly know if I am the reason. We met two years ago online, I don't trust people easily because I know what liars some people are. Right off the bat I noticed she met me about a w... (980 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want me to masturbate. How do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in my early twenties and I am a girl seeing another girl about my age. I do not personally think masturbation is wrong but my girlfriend insists that she does not like the idea of me masturbating although I only do it when we cannot be intimate during certain period when I ... (224 words)

My Boyfriend is shaming me and my sexual preferences! Am I in the wrong? Have I pushed him too far? Or am I really that disgusting?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years - at least 18 months of which have been based on serious long term commitment to each other with the future in mind. We have an average sex life. I have accepted that I am a more sexual person than my partner,... (670 words)

Do men's voices crack or sound shaky over the phone when they speak to women they might be attracted to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3798 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - When men I find attractive speak to me on the phone for business purposes, I sense that they are nervous and they laugh nervously or start losing their voice or get a shaky voice. What's the reason for this? It gets a little awkward and I am not sure if they are just as ... (73 words)

Do I try to reconnect? I don't want anything sexual or a relationship, I just want Pete back in my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3793 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - *I apologize for how long this is in advance* I'm already in a relationship and love the bones of my boyfriend,I'd do anything to keep this relationship going it's the only one I've felt really works,we've been together for a year. Before I was with him I was in... (958 words)

Any advice for a new relationship with an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) age 41-50 - I'm struggling to work out what this means - if anything... A few years ago I ended a relationship as he had started work in another part of the country and my work included weekends so we very rarely saw each other. We had many arguments about it and couldn't find a solution... (347 words)

Much younger man has no interest in sex. Could it be medical or is it something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3799 days ago

6 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm looking for an answer.. I am in love with a man that is 18 years younger. He says he loves me too. But we are having a problem in the bedroom. He has came up with every excuse possible. Stress, his dad dying, his ex. He only has one kidney. Low testosterone. He claims that ... (288 words)