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Archived questions from: 9 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He's only passionate about me when its convenient for him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like this is just going to be one long rant but I can't help it. I need to get this out. I've been with my fiance since June 2010. We've been engaged since January of this year. Our relationship started off as me with a desperate need to get away from my abusive ex an... (764 words)

I don't know if its lust or I am in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - So I feel as I am in a dilemma , I recently ended a relationship about a month ago because I wasn't feeling it . I told myself that it didn't want to date anyone just because I didn't feel ready for any commitment nor to lead any girl on because I myself sometimes don't ... (357 words)

I love her with all my heart! Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

9 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 and she is 19, i lover her with all my heart. Her brother was my younger sister Ex, i confronted her and she said she love also. We hv done the romance thing once. Now its 1 year now she says she is afraid of my sister and her own family. But i hv make it known to my ... (81 words)

My family don't want me to have a baby because I'm not married

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never had a great relationship with my family, and we have never seen eye to eye on many things. They are very oldfashioned in their thinking and they are very narrow minded. I moved out with my boyfriend last year, when I was 20. On my 21'st birthday, we decide... (293 words)

Why am I so unlucky in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 40 yr old single mum of a 7year old boy who I adore .I have a great job wonderful family and friends.I am on numerous dating sitessnd for the past 3.5 years have had several relationships/stroke flings. I always get caught up in the romance and end up hurt.I am told that I ... (138 words)

What can I do about my obnoxious brother in law who constantly outstays his welcome, especially at weekends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for over ten years and have 2 children. The last 2 to 3 years his brother comes by or calls our home once to twice a week. Sometimes more. He mainly comes by unannounced and stays usually the whole day and even some of the evening. Sunday is ... (381 words)

Should I stay with a Bf who has chosen to hang out with this girl I do not like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend hanged out with a girl that I really don't like lets just say this girl name C and his name is A well my boyfriend A got drunk with his brothers and his brother girlfriend a month ago and lied about it I found out about it because he smelt like liquor so he fina... (357 words)

She doesn't seem too interested or she'd call me right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (M)

age - Hi,well am in a situation, do I call or wait, about two months ago I started talking to this women at Sears, she works there, I used to. Before we only said hi, but we started talking, she took my number, took her three weeks to call, we talk for about a half hour or so, then ... (172 words)

LDR--havent been together in almost a year and I'm wondering if he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I'll try to make this short. Im in a long distance relationship and its been almost a year since we seen each other.we talk or Skype everyday and he helps me out financially, not that I need him to he just offers, I have never asked for anything. He says he loves me and ... (212 words)

Semi nude picture on boyfriends computer

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - I know this makes me sound uptight, but this is bothering me to no end. My boyfriend was letting me sit in his lap and help him look through some stuff on his computer. We went to the picture library and there was a picture of a girl he knew there. She was semi nude, and I ... (151 words)

Why do I still feel so hurt and messed up after breaking with my ex a year ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid! Why do I still feel so hurt and messed up after breaking with my ex a year ago? We were together on/ off for 9 yrs! I now believe he had a lot of narcissistic tendencys! He lied, had ex girlfriend he would hook up with behind my back! He was disrespectful to... (458 words)

Both friend of Jack, I'm his ex and both too afraid to say anything!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I haven't needed to ask for advice in a long time, but i've found myself in a bit of a situation. So I met this guy in my first year of University, we were living in the same halls, and we knew each other from nights out, lets call him Jack. We weren't particularly ... (953 words)

Why is my sister's age such a big deal in her achievement and success?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is 23 and everyone is going on about how amazing her success is, please help me see why it's so impressive!!? She left home at 20, and moved to Paris to work in fashion, since she felt this is where her career was and would benefit her. From working there she met so... (269 words)

13 years and 3 kids in he says " I have been wondering what it is like to be with other women"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I woul love some advise please. 13 years and 3 kids in he says " I have been wondering what it is like to be with other women" he was a virgin when we met (not that he told me) and he regrets not sleeping with more women. He works away a lot and the very next time came bac... (383 words)

My boyfriend called me a stalker and it was justified because of my actions. What should I do to recover from this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This morning my boyfriend borrowed my phone and saw that i had typed in google the name of a girl that he had recently added on a social media site to see who they were. I denied i had done it and didnt know how it was on there which was an obvious lie! Afterwards it was really ... (159 words)

If you keep your partner very sexually satisfied. does that make them less likely to look at or fantasize about other girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a few good looking female friends. He has ample opportunity to cheat but I don't think he would. I was just wondering, if you keep your partner very sexually satisfied does that make them less likely to look at other girls or fantasise about them? ... (48 words)

My family have ruined me and now my mom is picking on whatever's left. How do I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice desperately. Sorry this will be quite long :( In the past, when I lived with my parents, we had a horrible relationship. I'm not the type to paint myself as the innocent victim but in this situation, I never really did anything to deserve the treatment I ... (1372 words)

How do I talk to this girl one on one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3754 days ago

9 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - So me and my family are taking a trip to San Antonio and my step-mom is going to bring her cousins daughter. Well long story short I think she's kind of cute. The problem is that I think I try to much to look cool when my dad and step-mom are in the same room. When they leave ... (82 words)

What's going on? Is he just shy or am I just being led on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've not long got out of a rubbish relationship, no feelings for a long time so I'm not worried about the moving on bit tbh. I have met someone new though. We met on a singles site and have been out about 8 times in the last 3 months. I really like him and we get on so... (201 words)

I've liked him for 4 years but we've barely spoken and I don't know how to flirt!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3754 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I've liked the same guy for 4 years, from 7th grade to now 10th grade(counting the full year 7) and I don't know what to do. We aren't really good friends, but we aren't strangers. I guess you could say we're acquaintances. He messes around with me sometimes just doing ... (96 words)

I'm jealous of my girlfriend's past. She had sex with this guy at our office and I cant seem to get over this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

9 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, so I have been seeing a girl for a month or two now and it is absolutely fantastic, I love her with all of my heart and consider her to be 'the one' for me. There is just a slight thing which I know I am getting too hung up about but I would be interested to hear ... (432 words)

I contracted the herpes virus in 2011, now I feel I will never be able to look forward to a relationship or a sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3757 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I was sleeping with someone I liked in 2011, only things went wrong and I contracted the herpies virus from him. The virus never goes, although it lies dormant, I now have it for life. Well I met one of my neighbors three months ago. I like him and the t... (187 words)

We are at different stages in our lives, but I want to get to know him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I met a man a camp we both volunteered at. Early on we found ourselves chatting and having a great time. A friend invited is for drinks and we bonded even more. Completely out of no where we ended up sleeping together which was so out of character for both of us but we ... (257 words)

I fell in love at first sight and I miss him, but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

9 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I met this guy at a 3 week group thing and there was over 50 teens there and there was this one guy there I really fell in love with my friends introduced me to him first and he was flirty and stuff, at the night time we had a dancing sechions and he alsways asked me :) bu... (155 words)