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Archived questions from: 7 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend has turned into an egotistical jerk! Do I end things?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and we used to have the perfect relationship. He used to buy me things, he used to be so nice and considerate, and he would always make me feel special. But recently, it just stopped. He's obsessed with going to the gym ... (133 words)

My best friend keeps replacing me with other people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3785 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - My best friend replaced me with my own sister. She also replaced me with my stepsister. I feel like the third wheel. She keeps saying that you should come join us and what not and then she always leaves me out! What should I do?!?!?!?!?... (45 words)

What lengths would a guy go to, to use a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - What lengths would a guy go to, to use a girl? I'm so confused about everything that's happened really and almost feel a bit used but I don't know if I'm over reacting. The background to this is about 5 years ago I had a year long, intense relationship with this great guy... (456 words)

I am addicted to shopping!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have always been an impulsive person, and for quite some time now, I have been spending money like there is no tomorrow. I am buying things very impulsively when realistically I can't afford to. But in the moment, I don't care, its like I "need" the item. And I get a stra... (256 words)

How can I show my parents that this once bad boy is now a nice sweet guy ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help!!! I need some advice on introducing my bf to my parents / family. My father is a judge and my mother is nurse. I grew up In a very privilege family. Both of my grandfathers were judges and my family is very well respected in our town. I'm 22, I'm the youngest in ... (242 words)

I don't deserve my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - OK..Here's the deal I am really not sure I deserve my boyfriend of 4.5 years. I love him so much, but a while back we went through a rough patch, and I never cheated on him, but I probably did behave a little promiscuously when Ive been out, and bad mouthed him to my friend... (296 words)

My boyfriend is upset that I don't like to stay at his house but its uncomfortable there! Would you be upset over something like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - This isn't really a big problem, but I would like some advice. My boyfriend and I argued tonight because he said he is upset that I never sleep at his house. He said he feels used. He said he thinks we don't see each other enough. The thing is, I see him a lot more than I see ... (296 words)

My fiance lied to me and now I don't trust him. How do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiancé have been together over 4 years. Sometime around a year ago, we were in an LDR, and his friend was having a bachelor party. I talked to him about it constantly, and we agreed that if there were going to be strip clubs that he wouldn't go. Because of his past ... (237 words)

What should I do about my boyfriend talking with shady girls

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has a history of cheating, not on me but on his one ex. Shortly after he moved schools (we dated for a year back in 9th grade but broke up when he moved) he started dating this girl and they had a very unhealthy relationship. They ended up having a child together ... (470 words)

Do you think the age difference of 3 years is a problem for two teenagers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So, I'm 17 years old, and I'm a lesbian. I'm talking to this girl, we'll call her "M," and she's about to be 14. We started talking through Facebook, and I didn't know her age by looking at her profile. She told me, and I had no problems with it. We've been talking for about ... (166 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like me wearing a bikini to the beach but I feel restricted!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend isn't happy when I wear a bikini to the beach. While he doesn't restrict me, when I wear the bikini, he would be in a foul mood because he doesn't like guys staring at my body. While I want to take his feelings into consideration, it makes me feel restricted. What ... (56 words)

Should I have attended a funeral of my husband's former employee

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - My second husband leads a company in a small community. An employee of his that worked for the company for a long time and that he had to let go a few months ago, committed suicide. We haven't been married long, and I don't know the people that well where he works nor the ... (178 words)

Boyfriend going to Vegas. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My 30 year old boyfriend of 6 months was invited by his best friend (he is in a 3 year relationship and looking to get married soon) to Vegas. He asked me how I felt about it, and although it didn't make me happy I told him as long as he doesn't go to a strip club or cheat on ... (706 words)

Two different accusations of him "trying it on"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is trying to drum up business for himself through facebook and he adds a lot of people that he knows (even if only just a little bit). Last night he added his friends girlfriend. He then got a text to say: why are you adding so-and-so - you know of the history ... (213 words)

How can I love her but hate the idea of dating her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

7 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I could really use some insight on why I am having suck mixed feeling about my relationship. Back in February my friend and started working out a new local gym that opened. Being guys we checked out the younger girls there. There was this one young college girl that asked ... (678 words)

I don't want to block him because he is a nice person but I'm freaking out now because he will take my rejection very badly, how do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been chatting to a man online for a few months now, he seemed ok and I would offer him advice as he had mental problems...he has a borderline personality so I did google the illness and realised that people who suffer from that tend to act on impulse, go up and down in ... (175 words)

Should the other woman tell the wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - In a nutshell, should the other woman tell the wife? It's after breaking up with the married man (5 month affair), she does care for him very deeply. He has said his wife has seen several text messages and suspects an affair, and that there have been fights and talk of possible ... (194 words)

What kind of a relationship am I in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I was seeing this beautiful woman off and on for the last ten years. 8 months in 2005, 1 month in 2009, and 2 months just recently 2014. Everytime we have sex we never use condoms, and the relationship is always a secret. The reason why we always break up is because there's ... (186 words)

A troubled child and we aren't sure how to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Hope someone can give me advice. I am 34 with no kids but would love them one day. My partner has an ex with 3 kids (2 are his). The third child, well we just don't know how to help him anymore. I truly don't want to sound nasty, but I am fearful of his future. He is ... (345 words)

I'm falling for my room mate but I don't think I"m his type!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

7 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a gay man i happen to have a room mate who is also gay, he is my subordinate at work and considers us as friends, but as time passes by, as i know him more, i think i'm falling in love with him, we talk a lot about he likes on a guy, and obviously my not the type he might ... (82 words)

I'm considering breaking up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am considering breaking up with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. I've known him since I started college. We were friends at first, but then began dating (After I asked him out). I knew from the very beginning that I wasn't the type of girl he dates, especially from his past ... (754 words)

What does this quote mean for some of you??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - what does this quote mean for some of you?? I am a little confused on the exact meaning.. "I'm not who I was yesterday, and maybe you're still the same person in my memories. I can't tell the difference between what was and what is. I just know beneath everything y... (85 words)

I kick in my sleep! How do I stop this so I don't kick my soon to be husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm getting married next year. I have been sleeping on my bed alone for the past 23 years of my life. I only slept on the same bed as my fiance once and he said that I kicked him off the bed. I feel that I always kick in my sleep because each time I wake up in the morning all ... (86 words)

Our 'reunion sex' has me worn out. How do I explain this without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been dating for 3 years. He has always had a very high sex drive, we would have sex 4-5 days a week sometimes two or three times a day. He is in the army and was over seas for 8 months. He came home 28 days ago. I was behind happy to see him and even more ... (192 words)

He promised he wouldn't have his step-daughter over while I recovered from my C-section, and went back on his word

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

7 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Id like some advice as im not sure if I have a right to be upset or if its just my hormones playing up. to cut a long story short my partner still looks after his ex's child a few days a month as she doesn't see her real dad so hes kept visits with her after he split with he... (635 words)