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Archived questions from: 8 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

The man I've talked to online for 4 years finally confessed that he is married/kids. I feel like a home wrecker!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a man online in a chat room when I was feeling a bit down and lonely four years ago, we have talked continuously throughout this time. But over the last year, we have grown ever closer and talk every single day. I finally felt ready to meet him after talking over Skype, ... (523 words)

Why isn't my new partner turned on by me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age - Hi, I would be grateful for any views on my problem. I met my boyfriend six months ago (we are both in our early 60's). We have both been married, had families and been in previous relationships . I have grown to love him very much but one issue is spoiling my happiness - he ... (204 words)

We've been friends for 9 years and for the first time he sent me hugs. Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3754 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I like this guy. I'm pretty sure he likes me back too but he has not told me outright I haven't asked but plan on it next time we chat. He seems really shy but always talks to me, texts me early am, texts me late his time. He asks when I will move to where he lives. He seems ... (100 words)

I'm finding it so hard to accept that my ex has disappeared out of my life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, which he finished in January this year. I know there were a few problems between us and it was hard to accept that he didn't love me any more. He said there was nothing left. I did hurt him, and our relationship was... (753 words)

I don't think my ex can really accept that she is gay

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys. So I'm struggling at the moment. I had been with my girlfriend (same sex) for about two years. I can't be 100% certain, but I'm fairly certain that she broke up with me because she doesn't want to be gay. A little background. We met at work when she first start... (841 words)

My temper got out of control. How do I show my g/f that I would never hurt her?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

8 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my gf for almost four years now. Last night we all went out to a pub and got drunk afterwards we came back to my apartment. Everyone was having a good time so I'm not sure who things turned so bad. Apparently my gf and I went I tot he kitchen for more drinks a... (281 words)

Am I over thinking it when my boyfriend calls me dear?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3756 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I haven't seen my boyfriend for about a month now, although we've talked and texted almost every day. But, recently, in the past week or so, I've noticed that when he texts me, he calls me "Dear". He calls me babe all the time and even has me as "babe" on his phone instead of ... (136 words)

My Fiance's Ex Is Stalking Him...Should I end our engagement???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I got engaged last month, and we were so happy. Then, we got a nasty surprise. A girl, whom he had a brief relationship with back before we met has turned up out of the blue, saying she loves him and wants him back and to leave me!! Of course, he told ... (318 words)

Is she hinting around that she's finishing up with her ex or should I start dating others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was dating a girl over a year ago and at the time we both thought we'd met the one. We both thought it was amazing but before we met I'd accepted a job away from home. she was gutted and called it off because she said she simply can't do distance, she needs to protect ... (187 words)

Affectionate guy, says he's "not a big texter" but 6 weeks of silence while he travels is driving me insane!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, A couple of weeks ago now, a guy with whom I have a lot of mutual friends, whom I'd never met in the flesh but had heard great things about, and I, went on a date. After a couple of flirty Facebook posts, he'd asked me out a month previously, and after pussyf... (544 words)

Wife caught her best friend propositioning me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (M)

age - My wife caught her best friend saying very sexually leading comments to me. She confronted her friend on the spot and made her leave our house. Her friend called me in tears asking what she could to to fix it. I really don't know what she can do. This happened once before and I ... (217 words)

Boyfriend paid for expensive trip but is it too much too soon?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm probably overthinking this but is it too soon to be going on holiday with my boyfriend when we have only just (last few months) got back together after being apart for about two years? Last week it was my birthday and as a gift my boyfriend booked a last minute deal to g... (346 words)

Our religious views arent the same. Do I end things now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, I'm hoping that someone can help me make sense and see things from an outside of the box perspective. I don't really have anyone to discuss these issues with an feel so alone trying to find a solution. Here goes.. I met this guy online about 3 weeks ago now and... (356 words)

Not enough attention from long-distance girlfriend. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend and will see her in 15 days. After 6 months we'll have to be long distance for 3 months again. This time, we're long distance for 1 month. I'm having an issue because it doesn't seem like she does her best to text m... (362 words)

Are there some kind of rules about when friends have a fall out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - If three mature women are friends for a few years and one of them stops speaking completely to the other (actually the one who she was friends with in the first place, before the other came along) is there any onus at all on the third friend to discuss or even mention what has ... (365 words)

Boyfriend seems to only mention marriage when I am depressed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3755 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I haven't been together a year yet but he already brings up marriage. We are expecting a child, it was a complete accidental pregnancy, I was on birth control and we were using a condom but somehow I still got pregnant (My mother actually had the same thing ... (473 words)

He's a super nice guy but I'm worried that he's gay

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I just started seeing this guy I met online. He is so incredibly nice, sweet and wants the same things I do. However, I worry that he may be gay and just in the closet. He's the first guy I've ever met who hasn't had his hands all over me or tried anything on a date. He do... (170 words)

He's separated from his wife and she's pregnant but he says he loves me. Am I crazy for even considering him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3753 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This is going to be crazy long and probably a crazy story. Thanks for bearing with me. My best friend is a male. We've been friends for 3 years. When we met he was married. I was dating and I was never interested in him anyway. Flash forward to a few months ago. He's separated ... (197 words)

Why are some friends never happy for you? Am I wrong to be hurt by this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

8 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - why are some friends not happy when you share good news..? envy? jealousy? nastiness? are they "real" friends at all? I dont mean boasting or bragging.. or being " hey look at my news" just sharing that a happy event has occurred. Or should we never share good news with f... (290 words)