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Archived questions from: 4 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I suffer from terrible adult acne and its really affecting my self-esteem.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts. It his isn't a love question as such but it does relate to my low self esteem, . I have suffered with acne for ten plus years of my life. It's always had a huge impact on my confidence and I've often skipped going out or seeing people based on my acne. I wear make up ... (369 words)

My boyfriend and I don't have sex and he finally admitted that my weight was a problem. If he doesn't love me fully for who I am today, then why does he deserve me later when I am thinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have been friends for years, and he said that there was something about me that made him want to take it to the next level. I love him, and I am pretty sure he loves me. But here's the problem. I have been a ... (233 words)

How do I ask him to video chat without pressuring him too much or sounding needy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3760 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend that I like. I think he likes me back. He does and says stuff that is very endearing but doesn't really flirt. I have not met him but we have talked for eight years. He has given me his phone number which is great but I want to see him. We have talked about ... (127 words)

It's like I can't live without her texting me! Why am I feeling this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - my best and are together for an year now. we dont live in same city so only had met like 2 times and mostly chat over the phone. it is really great and she made clear from the first day that she only likes me as a friend and doesnt want any relationship besides that and i was ... (249 words)

The feelings of anger and resentment are starting to creep in after my break-up. I don't want to feel this way, please help me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm going through a breakup with my ex. We split up less than a week ago. At first, I harbored no anger or resentment. In fact, I felt very at peace in my heart about it. I was hurt and sad, but I understood and felt okay and calm. I felt this was just as painful for her ... (238 words)

He loves her but he doesn't like her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3715 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts, I am friends with a lot of guys. Anyways, I have this guy friend who talks about his gf a lot. Recently, we were on a topic about why men cheat and he was like "women are so hard to go with... Just last week I told my gf I love her but I don't like her" when I... (86 words)

His porn preference is for larger women, I am slim, should I worry?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is into big girls who are pretty, but I am slim - he does love me and find me sexy but it makes me insecure. I know he is into lots of types of girls, but his porn preference is BBW. Do I need to worry? He wants to marry me and buy a house and have kids,, but will ... (75 words)

What does "in a complicated relationship" on FB mean, exactly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My friend last week on her fb account put in a complicated relationship, what does it mean???? Ive asked her if shes ok and if she wants to talk im always hear to speak to but im not really sure what it means Does it mean her relationship is in trouble and she would like help ... (77 words)

He tells me to stop all of this "drama," please help as it's been weeks since I've had proper meal or left my bedroom!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a year back and we have been dating...he is very different from the entire world and i can vouch for it...maybe he loves me but i don't really matter to him...he seems like the kind of person who just can't love anyone but himself and his parents....whenever i ... (219 words)

I have a feeling that she is using me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

4 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - hi frnds i have been with this girl 4 a year and half and i lv her soo much but i have this feeling that she is using me ,i meet her while she was pregnant but due to some things the child passed away after birth ,soo last year december her dad got ill and she had to go away to ... (178 words)

My husband works nights and sleeps on and off during daytime while he looks after our son. I want to put my son in daycare then, advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have a question about daycare. My husband and I have a son who will be two in September. My husband works overnight and I work through the day. During the day my son stays at home with him while he sleeps off and on. I have been wanting my son in daycare ... (111 words)

My niece is kissing me on the mouth, does this mean anything?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (M)

age - the daughter of my wives elder sister, a mature 50year old single woman, never married, when we meet which is not regular, at the moment, but we are moving closer, I notice has started kissing me full on the mouth when we meet.nothing is said but these kisses seem to linger ... (81 words)

His foot fetish makes me feel like he doesn't fancy me enough to maintain an erection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey aunts and uncles! I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for about 3 months (I've known him for a year)....we see each other at weekends and sometimes through the week if we both have time off work... Things are going great and he makes me so h... (230 words)

Why won't he ring me at home? And he keeps forgetting to give me his house keys.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have been dating my bf in person for just over 4 mths, as we met online last December. Since we met online, we both knew we had something very special unfolding between us and after meeting in person, those feelings only solidified and grew even stronger and w... (923 words)

I completely support my boyfriend's acting career but he never seems to reciprocate!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - We've bee together for two months, and we are both in the same competitive business....The acting industry. We're both doing well in our own ways, but at the same time that extra support is always helpful to have in a relationship. But it seems like im all for helping him out, ... (176 words)

Why was I unfriended on Facebook? Did I do anything wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, what do you in following situation. If you went on a couple of dates with someone, you fancied them but you weren't sure how they felt as there were mixed signals and there were times were you felt they wanted to kiss you but didnt do anything. You find a new boyfriend and ... (239 words)

Have I been over-thinking the issues surrounding bringing a dog into our new home?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice. This is something I'm getting all OCD about! For my entire life, I have always wanted a dog. My partner and I have a brand new home, we're yet to have children and it just seems like a good time to bring that special companion into our lives. I ... (694 words)

I thought I was over this. He was my best friend. Should I meet up with him when he returns?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

4 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all, sorry this is another I love my best friend post. Basically long story short, I fell for one of my friends 4 years ago and we were really close until he got a new girlfriend and at that point I got myself to accept reality that we weren't going anywhere. He's a rea... (145 words)

I am married but I feel abused badly by another woman I like

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

4 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married and I was having problems with my wife and currently we live in different cities but somehow we have stable life and I visit her 2-3 times per month. I knew an ex-coworker since 2008 and in the same city I work (I work now in a different company) and we had been ... (385 words)

My slob of a housemate has bitched to our friends!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I live with a guy who is a complete slob. Not a couple or anything but we are friends. We live in a rented house and we deal with an accomodation agency. Last monh he was given plenty of notice that the agency was coming to inspect the house as agreed when we signed the ... (189 words)

My best friendis in love with a guy who mistreats her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my friend and I have known each other for about 2 years now. We're always hanging out and there for each other. However, as long as I've known my friend she's been dating this guy. He, honestly, treats her like garbage. So, my friend has a one year old daughter with thi... (287 words)

I want to move, but he doesn't. Are we headed towards DIVORCE?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Agony Aunts and Uncles, My husband and I are both in our early 30s and have been together for about 6 years now. We met and married in the city we currently live in, but, as of a year ago, I've begun to grow weary of this place and am frequently expressing my desire t... (231 words)

I cheated on my fiance with my ex but only told him we kissed.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

4 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I have been together for over 5 years and we are set to be married in a month and a half. I ended up sleeping with my ex and told my fiancé that we kissed. I was going to tell him the whole truth but he went ballistic anyway. He was devastated and heart broken. As ... (214 words)