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Archived questions from: 14 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm pregnant with one man's baby but I am in love with another

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I am in doubt, I do not know if I am happy or not (probably not) anxiety and sleepless nights are wrecking my world, It feels like i am swimming for so long and my feet cannot touch the ground and I can see no shore. Let me explain and I hope you can help me. ... (1179 words)

accidentally "double booked" myself. Do I go with my (ex) colleagues or my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - 2 weeks ago I left my job and a few of my colleagues were on about wanting to go on a night out with me for when I leave. One of the colleagues was on holiday the weekend I left so they said we could all go out this Saturday. One of them gave me their number and we've been ... (451 words)

How do we sustain our LDR and make it a less painful experience to be apart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice from people that have been through something similar with a long distance relationship. Firstly I want to make it clear, I am very very happy and content with my boyfriend, I am truly in love for the first time in my life and I am lucky enough that he f... (409 words)

How has the porn industry shaped our view on relationships?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to know woman's view on the porn industry and how it has shaped our view on relationships. Are we being forced to believe that this is the way we should be having sex and to like it? Porn has changed over the last 20 years, the acts of sex have changed and what ... (105 words)

My husband and I are getting a divorce but he refuses to leave the house, which is in my name. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. Recently we has a huge fight in which he now wants a divorce. He is seeing an attorney who told him to stay in the house in order to receive a share of the money if we have to sell the home. The house is in my name only. Unfort... (95 words)

How do I cope being alone and pregnant while my husband is in another country?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3773 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Anyone who is pregnant and alone without their baby daddy close by. Hubby is in another country and will only be back after the birth. How are you guys coping? Am 36 weeks and I feel so lonely and alone. At times I sit up in the night imagining he is with another woman and ... (82 words)

We are going to a costume convention and the other girl is wearing the same outfit!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice, though not really relationship advice. My boyfriend and I are going with a group of (his) friends to a costume convention. Think comicon if that helps. This is my first time going to one. We came up with a theme in the beginning of this year of retro sci fi, like ... (424 words)

I have herpes and had sex with my friend, he says he feels burning down there and is going to the doctor. Does anyone have experience with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My bestfriend and I have been best friends for 3 years. Recently we've found out we have these new found love feelings does eachother. I have genital herpes. He's known since the day I found out in June. He's my best friend so of course I told him. Saturday night we had ... (148 words)

I find attention from other men flattering. Is this bad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance since we were 13. Although I love him and couldn't imagine my life without him, I must admit I am a terrible flirt when I am out, or in male company. Sometimes I don't even realise I am doing it, for example, the guy who served me at the gas station ... (129 words)

Can all of these negative feelings and anxiety I have be due to the fact he cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so lately I haven't been feeling like myself lately at all!. I can't sleep what's so ever at night. I'm up all hours of the thinking, worried, and stressed out over every little thing! My ex and I broke up in June due to our relationship just not working out. I ... (397 words)

Can you cheat in an open relationship?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been in a long term relationship with my partner for the past 9 years. We talk about having children one day and getting married and we already own a home together. We have an extremely happy and healthy relationship and are very open and honest with eachother. From the ... (283 words)

How do I accept that I am second best and that given the choice it appears he would prefer me to look differently?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3757 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I know that other people have asked similar questions but I'm wanting some ideas on how to deal best with my insecurities around my boyfriends porn. All the women he looks at in potn look completely different to me . Like I mean there is no woman who is plump like me , larger ... (248 words)

How do I get over such a disapointing proposal? Why don't I feel so happy inside when he is the love of my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are together 1 year and 6 months. He proposed to me 3 days ago and it was very unexpected. He just texted me did I wanna go for a drive and I said ok. We went to the beach and I didnt want to get out as i looked like a mess however he insisted so I did. We ... (313 words)

How do I deal with this difficult friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey all, I am constantly having trouble with one of my friends. In one sence we are close, we go though phases where we tell each other everything, protect each other and you coudln't wish for a better friend. But then he goes though phases where he will just cut me and other... (199 words)

How do I feel more comfortable with my penis size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

14 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a usual thing for some blokes but how do I feel more comfortable with my penis size? guessing the main answer is to sleep with more women and hope they are really nice lol One issue is because I don't like my size it holds me back as I feel what's the point they will ... (218 words)

Sad love story, what should be my happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a devout Catholic and married in church. I'm here because I feel like my life has had so many twists and turns and I just don't know which way to go anymore. All I want is peace. Happiness and love also, if possible. Should I do the right thing, stay married and hope I ... (1601 words)

If we have kids I don't want the grandfather in their lives

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So...my boyfriend and I got into a theoretical disagreement. First it began with him venting about his parents. and how his mom refuses to pay him money she owes and how his birth father is a piece of shit who showers his other kids. I grew up estranged from a lot of family, my ... (212 words)

How do I meet people in a new city?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3774 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - In June I was transferred to a new city, 8 hours from home, for work. I love my job and I love the city, but I don't have any friends or a boyfriend here and I'm lonely. I'm a shy introvert, so it's always been hard for me to make friends. I've tried to go out and do thing... (237 words)

Relationship Respect and Making Friends of the Opposite Sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been dating by boyfriend for three years and am very much in love with him. However... I recently moved to a new city and am trying to make friends. As I am out meeting people, people occasionally hit on me and I don't know how to act. I want to make guy friends... ... (164 words)

Losing My Girl, What Can I Do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

14 August 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - I feel really stupid writing about this, but I'm feeling like whatever I do, I'm pushing my girl further and further away, even though I believe that she is the one in the wrong. We have been together for 3 years and when we first met, she was with someone else, I said that I d... (887 words)