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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I found out my wife was/is a call girl. How do I end this marriage with the least amount of pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - hi lovely people out there..... im really in mess. i do need your help so desperately .... please. Here is my story. i married a girl just 3 months ago. i knew her about a year. I happen to know her by a friend i used know. She was her relative and from the same place. ... (417 words)

I want him to text me even if I don't text him first

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I really like this guy and I want to get close with him but not to close just yet. And I text him and everything but I just feel like he doesn't want to talk to me because he sends me these short messages when I text him like okay and lol and yeah . I'm trying to get in ... (85 words)

Suddenly eye contact seems too intimate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! Okay I need some advice, firstly about eye contact, my hubby and I have been together nearly 20 years we've always had a hard trying relationship, but rock on banging good sex life, but I've changed. We've had A LOT of fighting over the years and we both spew vile c... (186 words)

I told her how her behaviour had affected me so she left with another guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex's solution to everything while we were together was to always storm out in the middle of a discussion. Or snap and break up with me about just about anything, and then leave me standing there wondering what the hell had just happened. So many times did this happen, that I ... (356 words)

Why is my friend treating me like this after I helped her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my friend doing this? Am I overreacting? So when my friend had no money and needed to get her hair done I took her to salon where I do my hair and paid for her to get it done, Cause she's my friend and was just trying to help her. Now she got this lady to do ... (158 words)

Feeling lonely because of having no one to talk to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel so lonely. i am a 22 year old boys. i have always been an introvert guy and i doesnt go out that much but go out as often i can. often times i feel very lonely and i cry because of having no one with me. my parents are not that supportive and someone with whom i can ... (301 words)

Touching someone's face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I will be as quick as I can. There's this guy who's one year older that I've knwon since the begining of the year. Well the thing is that we started to have little conversations during classes and he would tease/make fun of me (I must admit I'm a little joker too) so ... (218 words)

Could he like me? Or would he just use me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi So I liked someone for three years in college and never had to courage to tell him. But I'm pretty sure he knew and didn't act on it. Which is fine, I mean if he doesn't feel the same way. It took me a long time to get oer this passive rejection and just him in general ... (315 words)

I'm stuck in Romeo and Juliet save me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so im in a Romeo and Juliet situation. My mom and dad got in a fight with my friends mom and dad, and we are not supposed to talk. But a few days ago he told me he liked me and I told him I honestly did like him, i really do like him and ive known for a while now. We want to ... (97 words)

Is this starting to become a love triangle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this starting to become a love triangle? A couple of years ago, I met a married couple who became my friends (the woman more than the man). I too am married. With time, I found my friend's husband increasingly attractive, and noticed he is so much like me. I always respect... (352 words)

He says he loves me should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I was dating a guy but he left me, he blocked me on facebook and i didn't know why. He came back to me saying he has regreted doing that to me cuz he has never forgiven himself for it. i asked him why he left me and he told me he doesn't recall why he did that since it was long ... (97 words)

Is my ex using me because I'm rich?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to know if it's right for my ex to be asking me to buy credit for him? He keeps asking me to always give him money or gifts but he has never done same to be before. Im not sure that is how he relates to his female friends. He once told me he loves me. My question is, is ... (83 words)

Could this long distance guy be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd like some insight into a crush I am visiting in a few months. We live in different countries and only met at a party last year. We just flirted and kissed a bit -- I didn't want to go any further because I was casually dating someone else at the time -- and I haven't seen ... (206 words)

I like messing around with this guy but don't want to have full sex with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Just to note, my age is I will be 21 in a few weeks. So I have known this guy since we both went to the same school for a year age 15/16 (him being in the year above me) and during that time we were casual friends, he was a cool loner type who never came into school a... (1273 words)

I don't know how to reply to this guy's comments

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been chatting with this guy online. I'm a horrible flirt, so I'm not sure how to reply to his latest message. He was telling me that he likes going to the gym, I said that was cool and he replied by asking me if I wanted him to train me. What do I say to this? Haha? Yes? ... (120 words)

I really love this girl and want to trust her but I'm finding it difficult

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello guys and girls.. About a year ago.. I had an issue with my girl friend which I reported here http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-cheated-but-then-chose-me-but-im.html .. the TL;DR version is about how my gf cheated on (because I became "non committal and ... (391 words)

How do I act around this guy? Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - there is a guy that always stares at me. When he walk by he glance at me and then look away. But there was a time that we made an eye contact for 4 seconds. It was awkward. Sometimes he tease me in a flirty way. Does he like me? How shall I act when he's around? Im a kind of ... (82 words)

Did we have sex or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 27 years old girl. i have sex with my boy friend without intercourse. but he told that he inserted his penis into my vagina 2 inches. but i could not understand. i did not feel that penis entered into my vagina. i just felt penis over my vagina. how can i sure that penis ... (60 words)

He says he's not in love with me and wouldn't introduce me to his family.. should I walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello guys, I'm a 19-year-old girl who has been dating this 31-year-old Irish guy for 3 months. We have our problems, but we get along. He's fun, caring and all and we're in a committed relationship. The trouble is that when we were joking around one day I accidentally picked ... (240 words)

We don't want his parents to look after his new puppy! How do we avoid a rift?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Need advice. So my boyfriend just got a very cute little puppy, only 8 or 9 wks old, he has enrolled him in puppy kindergarten and. is quite committed to training. Now MY parents have a very wild undisciplined and much larger dog who they overindulge. My boyfriend doesnt mind ... (232 words)

Would it be wrong to get in contact with an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy from the age of 16 until I was 19. We made it work by visiting each other regularly. It's been two years since we broke up... It wasn't working. Neither of us wanted to move interstate, I was clingy and jealous, he was ... (174 words)

My boyfriend never buy me gifts or flowers. Do you think this is petty of me to think this way or is this a problem?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I buy my boyfriend nice gifts, all the time. Golf stuff, beer stuff, nice ties... He really doesn't do anything for me at all. He brought me a book for my birthday and a sex toy and that's about it. Otherwise, our relationship (one year so far) is fine... I don't know, I... (231 words)

Can you really teach yourself to sing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How an earth is this possible.... My sister is 20 and I've known since we were little she can't sing, she usually signs around the house and it's not bad but she's not great either. Well she's been at uni for the past 8 months and has been teaching herself to sing with this b... (228 words)

I love my boyfriend but almost kissed another guy...and a girl!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am engaged to a man who I am so in love with, and just couldn't live without him. Last weekend I was at a hen weekend with some of my reckless friends, and to be honest, it was more like a bender. We just went wild. I was so out of it I almost ended up kissing ... (190 words)