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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Overwhelmed. How can I speak my mind? How can I find more life satisfaction?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm extremely overwhelmed. I am married with 3 kids ages 5 and under. I'm a stay at home mom and i do everything!! Cooking, cleaning, taking care of everyone and i feel like i have completely lost myself. I used to have hobbies and a life and i just feel like i've lost to... (217 words)

I'm not into some of the things he does. Am I a prude? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'm in a new relationship and the sex is already an issue! I've addressed a few issues but I'm worried I'm being a complete prude! The 2 issues I've yet to mention are these - When he drinks he wants sex but needs help getting hard then can't finish! We can go for... (200 words)

How do I throw this guy out of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi friends I need some help the thing is one of male friend developed feelings for me though he has never directly said anything his behavior makes it visible. I used to consider him only friend. Am a person who is very sensitive and I donot like lossing friends. He beh... (199 words)

Should I marry a female therapist/psychologist?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 3739 days ago

1 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I just thought i would ask this question. Basically I'm a sensitive man....not a weak man...but i had a very unhappy childhood/ dysfunctional family. And alot of bad things have happened in my life...(bad luck, life failures, betrayals by others and family, feeling ... (577 words)

Its so hard to break from someone when you both still love one another!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help. I need some good advice, as this situation has me very upset. My gf (both women) and I were together for two years. I loved this woman more than I've ever loved another soul before. I wanted to share my future with her. I've never desired that with anyone else... (799 words)

Need tips to help a player boy falling madly in love with me but not handling it well

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dealing with a man who is having difficulty handling Love and handling it very strangely. I am concerned for his wellbeing. Well I met this guy a month and some days ago who from what I was told by many, he was a bad boy you know AKA player playa. So when my friend t... (518 words)

Why is it so easy for men to break their SO heart?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Im looking for guys opinions ....... I'm desperate to understand what men are thinking and the reasoning why they need to talk, flirt, cheat with other girls while they have a faithful loyal loving wife, family or girlfriend. How is it so easy for guys to break their SO heart? ... (204 words)

How do I get my boyfriend back to the way he used to be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid I am with my current bf for 4 years. We were best friends started dating 3 years back. He was currently in different state due to job and will be back in few months. For past 2 years our relationship was going on fine, we used to talk about everything and anythi... (316 words)

Will I have difficulties in pregnancy because the man weighs alot more than me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend weights 124 kilograms and my weight is just 56 kilogram. We're planning to have a baby. Will I have to face any difficulty during pregnancy because of the fact that I'm going to get pregnant by a man who weights a lot more than me?... (49 words)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I know my problem will sound childish to you and I know this "problem" doesn´t have the right to be called a problem..but still it hurts me. Also I´m no teenager, I´m 25 years old. It hurts me, that I´m being ignored on Facebook. When I put some pic I get 10 likes mos... (279 words)

Why doesn't he want to be honest and talk? What is wrong with him and his libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my Fiancée for 5 years and about 2 years ago his libido and need for sex started declining drastically. We used to have a great sex life. After talking, reading, being patient, supporting him and being constantly rejected when I make an attempt to be ... (250 words)

Feel sick to my stomach. Love my wife, and know it's wrong to text another woman. Need guidance on how to deal with all this, please?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a married man and I have been texting another woman for about 1 year, she does not know I am married. I love my wife very much and I can't be without her, I don't know why I began texting the other woman but I have become good friends with her until recently when, perhaps ... (192 words)

He only takes something seriously when someone else tells him. Why does he do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem with my partner. Firstly... when I tell him something its almost like he doesn't care or doesn't understand and in many cases blows it off... But when someone else tells him EXACTLY the same thing then he believes???? I don't lie to him so I don't understa... (81 words)

Was it a joke? I haven't met him yet. We talk online.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - So yesterday I was just having a normal online chat/convo with a friend I haven't yet met but no off and talk to a bit and the convo turned to sex - with watch others for money, as a joke. But then soon turned into details of what we would do and then he suddenly changes and ... (107 words)

How should I handle the fact that private information about me was revealed to others by a ''friend''?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Ok, so, I have had this crush on one of my female friends,who i will refer 2 as SN, for months now, and i had only told 1 person im a bi female, my best friend. SN is one of my best friends 2 other best friends. So anyway, i got sick of keeping it from everyone, especialy SN, ... (237 words)

Had a moment of weakness. So how do I regain my confidence, self esteem and sense of power over myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - ok so i was seeing someone last year and i really liked them. He ended things with me and i got really hurt. I have spent the last 6 months trying to get over him and it has been really hard as i am so heartbroken. I had started getting better and even felt more confident a... (295 words)

I am suspicious of this married guy and don't trust him. He's hinted he'd like a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am feeling really down about an issue to do with a guy who 'came on' to me about a year or so ago. When I first got to know him he was a friend of my (now ex) partner, who I was with for 17 years. My gut instinct when I met this person was "phoney" - I really have never ... (1618 words)

Should I flirt more or leave it alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (?) age 36-40 - I have been having private violin lessons for just over a year and i really like my tutor. His always impressed by how much i have learnt since the last session (think it helps that i like him, so willing to do more)and has text me once or twice after lessons saying i did well... (473 words)

Should I believe him when it comes to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Myself and my ex decided to get back together after two months apart. We had issues relating to his ex (and him maybe not being over her) that had spiralled out of control following one conversation at the start of our year and a half together. We decided a break up was bes... (451 words)

Why are the the guys I date depressed? I

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are the the guys I date depressed? I've been severely depressed before for years but I am no longer depressed and have not been in about 4 years. Now I am happy, and I like going out and living my life..going and exploring new areas, learning about new things, trying new ... (377 words)

How to know if he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone. I'm in love with this guy. It's the best feeling I've ever felt. I could look into his eyes for years, and when he touches me it sends chills down my spine. When we kiss it takes my breath away and when I'm near him my heart beats faster. I love him so much... (240 words)

How do I approach this dating dilemma?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3754 days ago

1 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys I been on a couple of dates with a girl. She said last time that she was not looking for a relationship but enjoyed my company. She also does not want a relationship right now but neither do I. I was thinking of just testing how this goes anyways without getting ... (112 words)

I know in my heart that something isn't right between my husband and this girl at work

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I both got jobs in the same company...so we work together most of the time...I've been there for about 5 months...He has been there for about a year. I noticed strange behavior coming from him and this other coworker of ours...she's beautiful, bubbly personality ... (313 words)

Is it normal for the head of a man's penis to feel REALLY sensitive after orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

1 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I was wondering, is it normal for the head of a man's penis to feel REALLY sensitive after orgasm? My boyfriend says that, after climax, any stimulation at the head of his penis feels painful. Does this happen to all men? Or could it be because he i... (181 words)