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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Forever single?. How do I learn to be more comfortable with girls? How or when or where can I touch a girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - How do I touch girls? I have been forever single. In order for me to have a girlfriend she needs to see that other girls are comfortable round me. The problem is I fear them all so much that I can't remember the last time ( if it even exists ) that I touched a girl anywher... (137 words)

How do I handle my best friend who is convinced that I had sex with her husband when this is not true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3738 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age - My best friend of 35 yrs has accused me and her husband of having affair. We never had a misunderstanding not once .her husband texted me about 3:45 am one morning asking me to listen to him. He and my bestfriend had been arguing so he wanted me to talk to her.I told him you... (98 words)

How do I attract faithful and available men interested in dating? Not interested in married men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Modnote added: The writer may mean celibate rather than abstinent? ................................................ Hi. I am asking advice on how to attract good faithful men. I am not going to any bars or nothing like that. Yet, only married men seem to be interested in me... (66 words)

He doesn't want to move on. I can't see us lasting together. So why do I keep going back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with a slightly younger guy for 2 years now. After 8 months we moved in together in to a house i bought. We shouldn't have moved in so quick, because it all ended up pear shaped and i had to move him out to cut a long story short. We ended up arguing every day, i was... (803 words)

Advice for visiting a lesbian bar alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so I'm gay and I've been out about 5 months. I've been in one short relationship but that's it. I've recently moved to London and really want to meet other lesbians for friendship and possible dating as I have very few friends here. Does anyone have any advice about ... (68 words)

Husband is in jail in another country and I'm tempted by others

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi it's been 2 years already since I wrote all my lovelife here, from fling to boyfriend to marriage to break up, I'm still here again and again asking for help aunts. And so I decided to fight my husband and protect our marriage as much as I can but suddenly as we move ... (190 words)

My ex boyfriend says he wants me back but is dating another girl?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok, so me and my boyfriend had been together for 9 months and we found out I was pregnant. His parents through a big fit over it that eventually caused us to break up. This was almost a month ago. Now he's dating another girl and I still love him. He knows this and tells me he ... (228 words)

I may have been friendzoned, so what's the best way to tell her I want more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl and I have been friends for quite a while (six months). I flirted with her in the beginning but she turned me down because she said that she couldn't date two people from the same company she worked at(she currently doesn't work there anymore). She use to date this ... (328 words)

Why am I very very sexually attracted to my x brother in law?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm very unhappily married, I recently separated. I have an x brother in law, my husband's sisters x husband I have become very sexually attracted to. I fully intend to ask him for sex. Sex or the lack of really wasn't a problem for me until I met my x brother in law at a ... (294 words)

Was this behaviour rude?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - HI everyone, So, I have a friend that asked if I wanted to meet up today. I told her I had a wedding to go to. She headed downtown (a 40 min drive) to hang out and asked to meet up after the wedding. So after the wedding I message her to let her know I am going to chang... (523 words)

How often do teenage girls reject people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Do teenage girls often reject people? I have been single my whole life because I fear rejection and if I make up my mind to approach my crush I drop out or stuff up or even worse say something stupid. Once though I managed to ask a crush to dance with me. This girl isn't ... (133 words)

We seem to bond and then they disappear?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a single woman, very independent and incredibly lost in my own craft of art and music. I'm still a student in college. For most of my life, I've been pretty insecure about myself thinking I'm weird or different and that I didn't fit in but recently I've stopped caring what ... (488 words)

Is he throwing hints? Is marriage in the works?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

31 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so here it goes 2 1/2 years ago I met my wonderful boyfriend we do things together help eachother out financially we live together he says his house is my house and his family loves me and mine loves him.....he helps me with my daughter from a previous marriage infact h... (1354 words)

I'm worried I may be paranoid about them laughing behind my back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I met this group of girls through my job. I've been there about 8 months now and I would like to think I get on with everyone, however, generally I just do my work and go home. I don't do 'office gossip' if you will. I am quite introverted in work wheras outside of ... (388 words)

How do I make a text conversation fun?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you make a conversation fun over text message. When I text my crush I feel like I can't continue the conversation with anything interesting. Whenever I would ask a question he would usually say yes or no and he'll put lol in every message. I want to say something to him ... (65 words)

He said marriage was not about money.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why does he talk like this? Is marriage about money or not? So I had an arguement last night with bf. I asked him if he's ready for marriage and he said yes. But said no, cause he's been out of job for 8 months now and he's reluctant about finding a new one. Cause... (265 words)

I bought the ticket, now I am not sure if I should go or not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a big relationship questions, but it's bothering me a lot. I met this guy from Germany last month, he was travelling around my country with his friends and we hung out a lot, eventually made out and had a really fun week together. We kept talking and he t... (358 words)

How do I know he'll stick around? How do I tell my parents?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 16 and Thursday I took three home pregnancy test and they all came back positive. My bf is 17 and just graduated high school in June. He is going to college almost four hours away from our home town. I still have one year left of high school. When I told my bf I was preg... (236 words)

I think I like my BEStfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I think I might have a crush on my bestfriend, we flirt sometimes with each other But We never catch ourselves.. it just comes naturally, anyways we've been bestfriend for like 2 years And I think Im starting to Develope a crush on her, because I get jealous when She talks to ... (55 words)

Why did my boyfriend, who is a well respected member of the local community, have to indulge in this cheap theft-like activity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age - Hi, I am in a relationship (3 months) with a lovely guy (we are both in our 60s) and he is a well respected member of the local community. One thing really bothers me though; our town hosts a huge annual agricultural show and the entry fee is £25 per person. We were both ... (273 words)

I don't have it in me to compete for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently started seeing a guy who i met on an online dating site. Our first date went very well so we met up a couple days later for another date and it went on from there. Last night he came to my place, i made him dinner we had a lovely evening but then i noticed a ... (246 words)

Should I just brave it and try to approach girls. What are some good tips to connect with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - I am 15, tall, muscular, well featured, and intelligent. I never curse or swear and I would never insult anyone. I respect all girls but especially like brown haired, cute, and shy girls. I homeschool so therefore I don't socialise much but when I do quite a few girls will giv... (123 words)

Should I cut all ties with my toxic abusive family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

- My family are toxic. My mother is mentally unstable who abused me when I was a young child. My father is cold and distant towards me and has never praised me or gone out of his way to do anything for me. I have 2 sisters. One is self obsessed and selfish, the other one ... (770 words)

It was nearly 8 years ago. We broke up due to his cheating. So why does he still have a hold over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex cheated on repeatedly and when I found out it broke my heart. We were in our late teens and it seemed like I would never get over it, as it does at that age. Time moved on and so did I, and after a year or so I felt ready to start meeting guys again. I had a pretty goo... (341 words)

Feeling guilty about walking away from my drug addict guy. Was I wrong to take some distance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I have been in a relationship for a few months with a guy who is a drug addict. He uses coke, meth, heroin, etc. We recently spoke about his drug addiction and I told him that I will be there to support his recovery. He just has to stop using drugs. A f... (354 words)

Crush on my soon to be Ex boss. What's the best way to ask him out after I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 43, divorced and my soon to be ex-boss is 65 , looks 50 and divorced. I've had a crush on him for the one year we worked together but I've handled it pretty well without showing it. I've found a new job and will be leaving in two weeks. What's the best way to ask him ... (68 words)

Should I believe him? My heart is saying I'm not ready to give up on us

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My world is in bits. My heart has been ripped out of my chest and my whole body aches. I can't believe I'm here writing this. I found out Thursday my childhood sweetheart (5 years together) and the man I love to pieces has been cheating. He had a 5/6 week affair with ano... (839 words)

Is my lack of sexual experience the reason I have so many doubts about my Gf's virginity? Was she really a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I am love a very cute girl and she also, our relationship going on from last 2 year. our relationship going with love,emotions, some time fight, sadness but it is true great love having between us. one day we had decided that more close to each other. we had sex, and i h... (252 words)

Why don't I get approached by normal guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3580 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a young woman, and let's just say that I am very inexperienced with dating/guys/etc. I do have male friends but I've never gone on a date or had a boyfriend. I don't get out much nor do I meet many new people, but every single time I get hit on or asked out, it's always by ... (290 words)

Is this just an excuse for breaking up? Or what does he mean by his remarks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is ending out relationship because he said he was unhappy and didn't feel like himself. He told me he wants to focus on himself and make himself happy and then he can focus on us . I am confused about focusing on himself part ? Is that a easy way to say it's ... (146 words)

I feel weird asking him after an hour. what do you think he meant by his remark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone I texted my friend a video about gardening (he loves gardening), and told him it reminded me of him. And he texted it was funny because anytime he sees a cool math video (I love math) he thinks of me and I think of him when I see gardening videos (we go to school... (179 words)

I want to be with him but I'm not sure that I can trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My names Tori and I dated my bf for just over a year. I signed up for a summer volunteering placement that involved me spending the summer travelling and doing work in low income communities. I left on June 1st and returned on Monday. While I was there I met another volunteer ... (250 words)

Is my husband more interested in porn than he is me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi it's mine and my husbands relationship. We have been together nearly 4 years been married 18months, He works away on the turbines which he has done for 2 years he does 2 weeks away and a week at home, which is shortly changing to 3 weeks then 1 at home, I work full time and ... (389 words)

I've moved with my boyfriend and now he's putting me on the back burner

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So I really need some advice... I been with my boyfriend for little over 7 months... Well he got a really good job offer in Ky and had asked me to go with him... So last week we moved... I love this man more then anything in the world and I want to spend my life with this ... (160 words)

How do I deal with a co-worker who refuses to tow the line?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3725 days ago

30 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi gang, Im used to answering questions on here rather than asking them, so here goes. Its not actually strictly a relationship question but it is effecting my relationship due to stress and worry. I work as an office manager for a small charity and have a team of volun... (1162 words)

I found out my wife was/is a call girl. How do I end this marriage with the least amount of pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

29 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - hi lovely people out there..... im really in mess. i do need your help so desperately .... please. Here is my story. i married a girl just 3 months ago. i knew her about a year. I happen to know her by a friend i used know. She was her relative and from the same place. ... (417 words)

I want him to text me even if I don't text him first

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I really like this guy and I want to get close with him but not to close just yet. And I text him and everything but I just feel like he doesn't want to talk to me because he sends me these short messages when I text him like okay and lol and yeah . I'm trying to get in ... (85 words)

Suddenly eye contact seems too intimate

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3764 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Help! Okay I need some advice, firstly about eye contact, my hubby and I have been together nearly 20 years we've always had a hard trying relationship, but rock on banging good sex life, but I've changed. We've had A LOT of fighting over the years and we both spew vile c... (186 words)

I told her how her behaviour had affected me so she left with another guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex's solution to everything while we were together was to always storm out in the middle of a discussion. Or snap and break up with me about just about anything, and then leave me standing there wondering what the hell had just happened. So many times did this happen, that I ... (356 words)

Why is my friend treating me like this after I helped her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is my friend doing this? Am I overreacting? So when my friend had no money and needed to get her hair done I took her to salon where I do my hair and paid for her to get it done, Cause she's my friend and was just trying to help her. Now she got this lady to do ... (158 words)

Feeling lonely because of having no one to talk to

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

29 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel so lonely. i am a 22 year old boys. i have always been an introvert guy and i doesnt go out that much but go out as often i can. often times i feel very lonely and i cry because of having no one with me. my parents are not that supportive and someone with whom i can ... (301 words)

Touching someone's face?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I will be as quick as I can. There's this guy who's one year older that I've knwon since the begining of the year. Well the thing is that we started to have little conversations during classes and he would tease/make fun of me (I must admit I'm a little joker too) so ... (218 words)

Could he like me? Or would he just use me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi So I liked someone for three years in college and never had to courage to tell him. But I'm pretty sure he knew and didn't act on it. Which is fine, I mean if he doesn't feel the same way. It took me a long time to get oer this passive rejection and just him in general ... (315 words)

I'm stuck in Romeo and Juliet save me!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so im in a Romeo and Juliet situation. My mom and dad got in a fight with my friends mom and dad, and we are not supposed to talk. But a few days ago he told me he liked me and I told him I honestly did like him, i really do like him and ive known for a while now. We want to ... (97 words)

Is this starting to become a love triangle?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Is this starting to become a love triangle? A couple of years ago, I met a married couple who became my friends (the woman more than the man). I too am married. With time, I found my friend's husband increasingly attractive, and noticed he is so much like me. I always respect... (352 words)

He says he loves me should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I was dating a guy but he left me, he blocked me on facebook and i didn't know why. He came back to me saying he has regreted doing that to me cuz he has never forgiven himself for it. i asked him why he left me and he told me he doesn't recall why he did that since it was long ... (97 words)

Is my ex using me because I'm rich?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - i want to know if it's right for my ex to be asking me to buy credit for him? He keeps asking me to always give him money or gifts but he has never done same to be before. Im not sure that is how he relates to his female friends. He once told me he loves me. My question is, is ... (83 words)

Could this long distance guy be interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd like some insight into a crush I am visiting in a few months. We live in different countries and only met at a party last year. We just flirted and kissed a bit -- I didn't want to go any further because I was casually dating someone else at the time -- and I haven't seen ... (206 words)

I like messing around with this guy but don't want to have full sex with him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3766 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Just to note, my age is I will be 21 in a few weeks. So I have known this guy since we both went to the same school for a year age 15/16 (him being in the year above me) and during that time we were casual friends, he was a cool loner type who never came into school a... (1273 words)

I don't know how to reply to this guy's comments

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

29 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been chatting with this guy online. I'm a horrible flirt, so I'm not sure how to reply to his latest message. He was telling me that he likes going to the gym, I said that was cool and he replied by asking me if I wanted him to train me. What do I say to this? Haha? Yes? ... (120 words)