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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I keep changing my mind about how I feel!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3783 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I have recently come out of a relationship where my ex met another girl and he fell in love with her (it had been going on for a few months). Over a week ago I tried to go online dating again as I was thinking that it might be a good distraction and a way of getting over the ... (703 words)

My friend's comments have me doubting my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am feeling quite worried about whether i should remain with my bf, or just break up with him, because of what i am being told by my close male friend who lives overseas. My bf and i are very close and have been together for some time now. He tells me he adores... (564 words)

Should I keep talking to him knowing we'll never meet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya Well i signed up to a dating site, honstly just thought id have a nose and see what it was all about... I wasnt expecting anything to come from it. I noticed a boy viewed me (that was pretty hot lol) so i messaged him... Hes from ireland and im from wales so at the tim... (481 words)

I want to be popular in college!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - hey i am 18 and i am in big problem i have no nice friends in my new college and in my previous college i didn't have friends and people who i talk to won't concentrate much in my talks and many will start talking over me and i feel so alone in my college and i feel lonely and ... (137 words)

Should I pursue trying to date a woman with dysmorphia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just wanted to see what your opinions on this is. I met someone well over a year ago and it was amazing. We got on really well, so much so we had 3 dates on one weekend. When I was at work the next Monday she send me an email and text messages telling me how m... (438 words)

I love my late father's mistress

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My name is Trevor, 35 years old and Black and unmarried. In 2000, my father, then 57 years old started an affair with Asma, a 19 year old married Indian woman who was divorcing her husband. After her divorce my father spent a lot of time with Asma. A month later he introduced ... (175 words)

He's flaked a few times -- am I being tested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I started talking to this guy from my uni. We have mutual friends and we've been talking through facebook and now text and flirting all summer non stop. We're both 21 and have a lot in common. Lately however, he has been quite flakey. He said we'd go out and didn't live up t... (272 words)

Leaving for college -- should we break up or try to make a LDR work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I leave for college tomorrow and I need help on what to do with my relationship. We love each other, a hell of a lot. But we're going to different colleges, he's going to college in the city and I'm going 3 hours away...my thing is I want to be with him..but in the past he has ... (184 words)

Is using the services of a prostitute OK?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

12 August 2014 (M)

age - I've been separated for years, I find sex is hard to get with out being in a relationship. I don't think it's fair to get into a relationship until my divorce is final. The only sex I had any chance of getting was with 2 married women, I won't have sex with anyone's wife or ... (164 words)

How can I get him to approach me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (?) age 41-50 - There is a guy who works in the office above mine but for a different company that I am attracted to. I don't know anything about him and don't see him everyday. A few weeks ago in passing we locked eyes and smiled at each other, I was smitten. Since I've only seen him twice in ... (177 words)

Are there any diseases I can give my girlfriend? We are both virgins

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

12 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend never had any sexual relationship before(or anything on the side). We were both 100% pure virgins. Now, my question is -- is it safe for me to perform oral sex on her? Are there any diseases I could get or even give her, while we're both virgins? ... (182 words)

How can I tell if it is safe to be 'out' at this school? And how do I make friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

12 August 2014 (?) age 22-25 - I am approaching becoming a freshman in high school where I will know absolutely nobody beforehand . This in itself is extremely stressful but on top of that, I am someone who has recently come out as gay. And I don't know how the school is on that sort of topic. Im not sure if ... (161 words)

Every time I try to leave this man he threatens to kill himself. Is this my fault?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Been with my partner for seven years, we have a four year old child together. We have a very rocky relationship and constantly argue and I am very unhappy and he is too. I have tried to make this relationship work for two years now and it just won't work. Everytime I do pack my ... (317 words)

I cant get pregnant by my husband. Is it because our blood doesn't match? Should I try to get pregnant by another man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid.ORG. Im 29 married women with no children.Me and my husband we have been trying for a baby about 8 years knw bt now lucky.So I like to know if its is possible to get pregnant if I sleep with another man because so of people say maybe our blood they dont match. ... (61 words)

Can my child be taken away from me because I had an affair with my uncle by marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - so i will start by saying where i have messed up, i am in a commonlaw relationship with a man that is also the father to my 5 year old, we have been together for 7years and i have never truly been happy with him, i stayed for so long just to make sure my child had both parents ... (443 words)

Husband on Zoosk Looking for Men

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age - I found out last night that my husband is on Zoosk looking for men. This has been going on since at least 7/2012 - but his paid subscription ran out around the end of 1/2014. However he looks at this every 1-4 days. He ha his relationship status as "Windower", but we have ... (205 words)

Was I right to tell my boyfriend to just end it if he's not sure?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and i have decided to settle together finally....so i thout...until i have to listen to hm whining as the day approaches for him to meet my parents.. one day his sure another day his not...That doesn't mean that i dont have doubts myself ...but at least am sure his... (143 words)

Friend Zone Faux Pas

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - So I have this guy friend that I am very close to and recently we were joking around and I unintentionally put him in the friendzone. At the time he had a girlfriend so it was totally no big deal and we would joke about it all the time, but recently they broke up. We continued ... (199 words)

Am I wrong to want a more exciting sex life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

12 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I don't want To come across as another loser guy who only cares about sex because I'm not. I've been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half years now and I love her to bits.... But. Am I wrong to want a more exciting sex life? This has always been an issue for us because I have a ... (226 words)

Lately he hasn't been reacting sexually to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3783 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has usually had a higher sex drive than me so I make a point to initiate sex or sexual activity about every second day so he won't feel neglected or unwanted. But the last few times I've tried to there's been absolutely no interest from him. I can't tell if it's ... (130 words)

I think my husband has a drink problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I believe my husband has a problem with alcohol, and I am just not sure how to deal with it anymore. Everyday, after work, he'd go to the off licence and buy vodka quarter bottle, and sit and drink it all while watching TV after work. He says it's not that much in a quarte... (435 words)

How can I make my first time less painful?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So the other day me and my boyfriend decided to give the sex thing a "practice run", because I'm still (?) a virgin and I just wanted to know how it would feel, like on a scale of pain. It was very impromptu but I felt comfortable and we used a condom. He put it maybe half way ... (178 words)

I let her in to my life and it was a mistake

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

12 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Really needing some advice. I went through a very horrible relationship many years ago. The girl cheated on me, was violent, really messed with my head. I now suffer from anxiety and had PTSD. I still have regular nightmares. I'm really a shadow of the guy I use to be. I... (556 words)