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Archived questions from: 15 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My fiancée wants a girls' holiday but the idea makes me uncomfortable

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (M) age 30-35 - Hi I have been with my fiancée now for 4 years an she keeps saying she wants to go on a girls holiday and I feel really uncomfortable with her going to another country clubbing with just girls. Am I wrong to feel uncomfortable with it?... (48 words)

I'm tired of being alone and would like to know how to branch out and meet someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3773 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My school is predominately female. I feel like I have the worst social life when it comes to guys. It's not that I'm an antisocial person, I just feel like every time I meet someone they either take advantage of me or it never leads to anything further than basic friendship. I... (115 words)

I am totally in love with my second cousin, but what does he want? I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I am totally in love with my second cousin. I have been in love with him since I was about 15 yrs old but he was older and had a girlfriend and I just figured he would shoot me down. I am 27 now and we lost touch for a while but recently got back in touch thru social media. He ... (182 words)

No kisses from my boyfriend! He just starts sex. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem with my boyfriend, he doesn't like to kiss me down never. I do for him everything but he doesn't. When we start kissing or hugging he just start the sex. He doesn't kiss my body. I feel I'm sad each time after sex. I don't know why he does that and what should ... (60 words)

I have my first date! Is there a list of no-no's to follow to ensure that its a great date?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm about to have a date for the first time in my life. Is there a general list of things that I should refrain from doing in order to ensure that my date has the best possible time? The date itself is going to be a fairly simple affair. Basically we're just going to grab som... (86 words)

I'm living the life of a single person but I'm not single, in a LDR!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. The first year and a half was great, then he moved 6 hours away because the company had problems and pulled everyone back to head office. He struggled financailly and I helped him out. I said at the time I did not want to be in a lon... (314 words)

Is my boyfriend playing head games or is he serious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so here it goes 2 1/2 years ago I met my wonderful boyfriend we do things together help eachother out financially we live together he says his house is my house and his family loves me and mine loves him.....he helps me with my daughter from a previous marriage infact he ... (1083 words)

How do I get out of limbo?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 51-59 - Dated a woman for 6 months. She got pregnant after saying she could not. I left and returned after my daughter turned a year old. Had a good relationship and I bought a ring. I asked for a prenuptial and was told maybe. I held the ring for a year. Tried to have another child ... (185 words)

I think I am too attracted to this girl who likes me only as a friend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 22 year old boy and have no real friend with whom i can share my sadness.. i feel alone al the time. i have no friends and i am not good at making one. a girl came in my life and became my friend. and that also because her family knows my family. it was good and we mostl... (234 words)

Why would he google my exes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I just recently found out that three months into my relationship my boyfriend went online and Googled two of my ex's. My boyfriend is not a controlling person and he is self confident - not needy our insecure. I'm not really sure what to think of that? Can any men shar... (68 words)

I want to leave my boyfriend because just now it's feeling like our relationship is more like a comfy convenient situation instead of a loving happy one. I want to open up to my friend and not feel guilty about hanging about with him. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - OK,so I'm needing some advice, not criticism buy good solid advice.Recently I have been up and down emotional, I have a lot to deal with just now but I was fine up until about six weeks ago. Six weeks ago my life changed and it's been tough, I have a boyfriend who I have been ... (270 words)

I want to hear him say something nice about me! Is he still attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - So, my husband and I have been together for 5yrs and married for 2yrs. My husband use to compliment me all the time, and me being a woman I need these lil compliments to make me feel better! We've had many of problems in our relationship down to actually splitting up for a few ... (366 words)

Joining new college, but I doubt I will make any friends. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm feeling real low today and i'd like some advice. I've been through a lot of crap over the last few years, and even though things are looking up I can't help but feel they are just going to go the same way as they always do. ... (658 words)

Could I have found the right guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been dating this guy for 3 months and things seem to be going very good. Except that his ex is still in his life he says they are just friends. We hardly fight and he says that when he he's with me that he doesn't think about anything or anyone else. We haven't ... (132 words)

Should I ignore him for a while? Should I just stop speaking to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been chatting with a guy for almost a month now. I know him through uni friends but have never properly hung out with him. At first we flirted and spoke through fb and moved on to textinh every single day, throughout the day. But now he takes about half an hour/to an ho... (165 words)

In need of advice on online love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3778 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - guys i need answers wel, met a guy from another continent online.am frm africa n he is frm canada. i feel i really like him thou at first we were just chat buddies,but after texting back n forth i developed feelings for him. he tells me he likes me aswel.recently h... (132 words)

Why am I so uncomfortable with one of the most natural things out there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) age 30-35 - Okay so this might get a little lengthy but I have to share it because it's bothered me all my life and currently I can't sleep at the moment because the thoughts won't leave my brain. I do have to give some background about myself but to sum up the issue, the topic is; ... (819 words)

I don't want to be a pushover and at the same time I don't want to pressure her during a rough patch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been dating my gf for over 3 years. early on of course things were great, no problems as expected in the start of a new r/s, but lately there have been some minor problems and i'm not sure whether it's a really bad sign or just a sign of a rough time to wait out and get ... (813 words)

How can I stop hating myself because I forgive her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Short and sweet. My best friend of 5 years and girlfriend of a year just up and left me. I found out she messed around with 5 other guys while she was with me. The only way I found out was one of the guys that she was messing with told me cuz he felt bad for me. I bought her a ... (165 words)

What does it mean if my gf gets horny for me when I'm not around, but not so much when I am around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - We're in a long distance relationship and get together a few days each month. The week leading up to our visit, she'll express how turned on she is for me and can't wait to mess around. But when we do see each other in person, her hornyness is not nearly as strong. She's even ... (141 words)

I have a crush on my step cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3782 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - So I meet this girl that I kind of have a crush on. Well there is a couple of problems,she's my step-cousin, brother and mother are very over protective with her, we both are shy. Well my family and her have just got back from a trip and she came along with us. Well she opened ... (132 words)

Is there a difference between a FWB and a side chick?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know how to start off my question other than just asking it plain and simple. I'm just wondering if there is a difference between a side chick and friends with benefits? And if there's a difference then how are they different? The guy I like, has a girlfrie... (157 words)

I am not sure how to make this long distance relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm from the US, in a relationship with a guy from the UK. I really do love this man and if things keep going well, I actually feel like I would be willing to make a huge sacrifice (which includes leaving my mother, father, etc and everything I know in the states) to move over ... (207 words)

I'm questioning my sexuality but yet I love this girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3781 days ago

15 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Sorry for the long post, but I have a lot of details to add. If you read the whole thing and respond, I would greatly appreciate it! I am a 20 year old male. My girlfriend of about 7 months and I recently broke up, mostly because of me questioning my sexuality. We are talking ... (379 words)

Why is he so hot and cold? Excited and happy one day, ignoring me the next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3776 days ago

15 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - After 8 months, I finally returned to the place I used to work. The last time I was there, I became good friends with a man, let's call him Mike. Mike pretty much taught me everything I knew when I first started the job. He is about 10 years older than me, married with one ... (551 words)