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Archived questions from: 28 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I`d like to learn to feel confident in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my boyfriend at university; we have been together for three years, and spent most of this time together almost constantly. He has invited me into his family and is overall supportive of me in my work. On the other hand he hasn’t stuck up for me in front of his friends a... (401 words)

I'm worried about our relationship now that our lives are changing.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I both found jobs rather quickly after leaving university. Call it good fortune or whatever, but she started working this week and I am due to do so next. I have found myself worrying that these changes to both our lifestyles could weaken our relationship and ... (338 words)

I love her, but I hate the toll I've taken on her

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - On New Year's Eve of last year I started dating an amazing girl, Kate. I was totally in love with her, she's amazing, sweet and incredibly hot. Less then two months later I was in a serious car accident that left me in induced coma for 8 weeks. Doctors have called me a ... (317 words)

How can I reconnect when I don't know anything about him, not even his name!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So i met this guy and i just fell for him the moment i saw him. I was invited to do some work for the company where he works and we just hit it off. Then only thing is I want to ask him out but i have never asked a guy out before. And the problem is today was the one and only ... (196 words)

I am still embaressed by my actions of two years ago.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm normally pretty good and forgetting and getting over embarrassing moments. I normally don't really care and laugh it off but for some reason this is different..probably because this is the most embarrassing thing that has happened (or at the very least the second). ... (812 words)

Should I believe my girlfriend and what she says about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 26-29 - my girlfriend and I were talking about past sexaul experiences and she told me she had sex with 2 guys. I really do not care what she did before me, but she said the boy that lived next door fingered her for 3 years but never had sex with her.I know this guy and wonder if a ... (80 words)

I am sick of financially supporting my boyfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Am I a bad person to want marriage and a secure future My bf lost his job 8 months ago and I've been supporting him emotionally and financally since then. We've been through so much. We fought, argued, he's pushed me away several times but I Still stayed. Lately ... (227 words)

I'm confused, did he want to break up or not, I need an outsider's opinion.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3761 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm a bit confused right now. (I posted last week about breaking up) I've been with my (ex) partner for the last five years. He recently done his phase one on his training with the army, we had all these things planned before he was shipped off to uni in two weeks time. ... (663 words)

My feelings are all jumbled between ex boyfriend and current room mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3765 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I recebly move in a new house after a recent break up with my 2 years boyfriend. I noticedt hat one of my house mates started flirting with me.one day he suggested to watch a movie in his room. We made out twice it was leading to sex but I was too stressed and shy to do ... (300 words)

Suspicious behaviour from my wife in the context of a poor marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so here is the situation. About 2 yrs. ago my wife tells me that she is not in love with me anymore and that we should separate. The next day she wants to take back what she said and work on our marriage. So I agree. Anyways, My wife is very big on talking to her frie... (551 words)

My controlling parents want me to live at home forever and I feel trapped.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I am stressed and in need of advice. I'm 18 and living with my parents to go to community college but ever since I was 14, I have been wanting to move out. I can't move out just yet because I have no job or car. Although I have money saved from when I was 14, I want to use that ... (350 words)

Boyfriend doesn't love me -- should I stay ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating 4 months and things are very serious he even talks about me moving in with him and moving to a different state with him one day. I'm confused because he dose everything I ask of him and is supportive and all but the other day I said I loved ... (204 words)

Is it arrogant to think that you're "too good" for someone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it okay to think that you're too good for someone (or that you want to reject them based on your high standards), provided you don't say it to anyone else? To merely think it as part of making a decision? Just found out a male acquaintance secretly fancies me, and would go... (226 words)

I told him everything but he doesn't trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I have been happily married for 16 years. Well a few months ago a friend's husband sent me a text message offering an indecent proposal. I was immediately up front with my husband but since he has treated me on occasions as if I had actually been unfaithful. I am... (96 words)

Asking him for sex is like asking for a kidney! Is it normal for a man to try and avoid sex so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3752 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm with my man a year and 6 months and the sex is becoming non existant. At the begining it was great but now im lucky to get sex once a month. It's always me who has to ask or make a move never him and its upsetting me. When i said it he said he is spearing himself for ... (454 words)

Everyone says, 'Do what you love' but I don't know what career I would love

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 19 and have currently finished my final year in college. I applied to go to University however over the summer I have been thinking a lot about my career and I'm not 100% sure Journalism is what I want to do with my life. After thinking about this, I have no idea what I w... (189 words)

Nothing happened while he was married but his sister considers me a "home-wrecker"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with Jeff for almost four years. . He was married for two years and one night while working he confused that they weren't getting along. I wouldn't so we were close friends, but friendly with each other if we ran into each other and things like that. We ended ... (375 words)

Arranged marriage -- she tells me her past is too dark to reveal

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - dear all... my marriage was half arrenged and half love. Thats means we met through our relatives and we fell in love. we dont know much about eachothers past. Whenever i talk about past she just refuses to talk about it. She says she wont be bothered whenever my past was. Tho... (127 words)

How Do You Flirt With An Introverted Guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have a major thing for this Scottish guy I recently met, who just moved down to England from Glasgow. :P He's stunningly cute, and very, very intelligent and passionate about what he does (he's an engineer, and my firm is paying for employee "training events" that his ... (342 words)

Do you think sex talk is this woman's way of trying to lead me into an affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a woman friend who is married. I see her every week for dinner with a group of friends. We hit it off quite well having a lot of common interests. Lately she's been telling me how unhappy she is with her husband, that her marriage is basically over. She's a kind and warm ... (293 words)

Am I overreacting about him not initiating any text for the last few days ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating this guy for 2 months over the summer and he had to move 6 hours away (driving) to finish his masters program for one year. Prior to his moving we had spent a month and half 24/7 together. We had gotten very close and decided to keep our relation... (460 words)

I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Do I love her or is it just a crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since the day I first saw her. She is beautiful but so are many of the tens of thousands of girls on campus. Even though I was shy to even talk to her at first I got to know her and she is extremely intelligent, mature, passiona... (571 words)

High school Homecoming: I need advice, which girl might be the best choice to ask?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey people of DC, Forge is back again... with more high school "fun." Ready to help? The issue is Homecoming. By far the biggest school event I've been to. The dance, pep rally, football game, you know, eventful stuff. I have time on this, thank goodness. My issue, is th... (1117 words)

Was this a platonic response or is there more to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am friends with a man through an acquaintance of mine and most of our conversations have been work related (although glances and smiles between us have indicated otherwise and there might be an unspoken attraction). The other day I confirmed my presence at a common event ... (79 words)

I think I might be pregnant! Should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I might be pregnant but I don't want to say anything to my boyfriend before I know it's true. My boyfriend is 21 and im 17 and I'm on birth control but I accidentally missed 3 pills in a row. My boyfriends cums inside me but I thought that if I caught up with my cycle I ... (145 words)

Am I falling for my boss when I swore blind I never would?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Ive recently got a new job, my boss fancies me. I knew him before I got the job but not very well. Never have I looked at him like that never thought I would he's not what I look for In a man. Obviously since ive been in the job ive gotten to know him better, in the l... (184 words)

How do we bring our relationship out in the open without people thinking we're having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - 8 months ago I met a guy named Derrick, he is a police officer and I was doing some volunteer work, we ended up working on a few projects together. He was engaged and I was In a long term relationship. We were hanging out three or four nights a week with the organization we ... (355 words)

Please help me stop thinking about this amazing guy I met while on a holiday! I'm in Australia. He's in the USA!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

28 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a guy while on holidays in the USA. We met in Arizona. We had an amazing one night stand and I never thought I would see him again. He flew back to Illinois and I continued on my trip. We exchanged numbers, he changed his flight the next day so that he could have a... (772 words)