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Archived questions from: 3 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help I'm so lonely, and keep getting rejected!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm lonely and confused.. I'm a strong and very independent woman, I run my own business and have been in 2 long term relationships, I never sleep around and only slept with 4 people at 23. Normally I'm a happy single and have lots of guys wanting me. After 9 mont... (449 words)

Middle aged and worried I have nothing to offer in life.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - I am going to be 35 in a month and realise that I have achieved pretty much nothing in my life...and now I am middle aged so hardly about to get better from here! I have no stability. I have no home of my own (I have a room in a shared house) And realistically, I... (581 words)

Husband is taking off to our honeymoon destination with friends before we get to go, how do I react?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi aunts and uncles. So my husband and I are married, but postponed our honeymoon, due to finances and the birth of our first baby. We have our honeymoon-vacation planned. So, I was looking forward to it. My husband just informed me that one of his friends was going to pay for ... (107 words)

How can he like me as a friend yet initiate all physical contact and flirting?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - hi guys. ive got a rough situation at the moment. here goes;id known of this guy for about 2 yrs only really got to know him about 6 months ago..he can on holiday with me and some friends about 3 months ago when one of my friends told me this guy was flirting with me..i was/am ... (477 words)

My ex lover, who's a married man, won't leave his wife and children for me. But he keep buying me things even though I said I only want to be friends. Do you think he is too emotionally involved to lose contact with me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 51-59 - I had an affair with a married man but ended it because it wasn't going anywhere, I ended my marriage and now I'm seperated.Anyway my ex lover started contacting me and I told him that I ended my marriage and moving on with my life,I told him I wasn't willing to share him with ... (180 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend two months ago. Do you think I overreacted?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, Thank you for taking the time our to read all this. I broke it off with my boyfriend over two months ago and the thoughts of "did I overreact?" coupled with "I miss him so much" have started creeping in. So, I wanted to get some of your opinions about my s... (666 words)

Current friendship has taken a turn for the worst and I feel I am being ignored. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3757 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay! I need some help from you guys regarding a current friendship which is kinda heading south. I have been really good friends with a guy I know for about 2 and a half years, I will refer to him as K. ... (1398 words)

I think my girlfriend was flirting with my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I'm a 20 year old male and I had a bit of a shock last night. I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and we're both very happy together. However last night I had a bit of a shock. We went on holiday with her friend and my best friend and some others. ... (264 words)

What does it mean when a guy shares his baby and childhood photos with you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Aunts, I know I don't share baby photos with just anyone, even friends. I have fallen for a man I've known for a long time and I suspects he feels similarly. I was wondering what it means when a guy you are interested in shares baby/childhood photos with you? ... (65 words)

I don't know how to move forward, my childhood holds me back!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I came from quite a difficult family situation. My parents had an awful marriage, from the time I was born my dad was always constantly cheating on my mom and yet my mom stayed with him and had another child with him (my younger sister). My dad was never at home when I was ... (376 words)

We danced, and had fun, but I didn't know how to ask for her number!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been on a few nights out and they've been great gone out had a good time simple was great. I don't go out to hook up or anything I just go out for the laugh with my friends. However, last night I was dancing with a really good looking girl it was fun but what i realized ... (193 words)

Should I let my fiance know I found out she was still an escort during our first month of dating, or should I let it go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm really having a hard time dealing with a bunch of things that I found out about my fiance. I don't know how to approach her about a lot of things I found out, and I also don't know what I really want out of the future. In order to receive relevant feedback, I must... (1618 words)

He ticks every box .... apart from his very bad breath!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been hanging out with a guy I know from swimming club and recently he's asked me out on 3 dates. He's tall, fit, healthy, has a great job, is close to his family, we get along so well and he ticks pretty much every box! The only problem is....he has horrible breath!... (211 words)

Will I be hurt again if I decide to trust her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

3 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - My GF of almost 6 years has previously cheated on me, the man she cheated on me with was in another state and as far as i know she only actually met up with him 4-5 times. Most of their communication was via skype and she would spend hours every day on her phone which i now ... (592 words)

My partner's mother makes my life miserable.......

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I need help on how to tell my partner I think his mother has Jocasta syndrome. We have been together just over a year and a half. He is 22 and studying at university, I'm a year older and work full time, we are engaged since 4 months in to our relationship and... (566 words)

My boyfriend wont tell his Mom he is dating so she keeps trying to set him up with a girl!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So the other night while my boyfriend was talking with his roommate his roommate asked if his moms side of the family knew about me. My boyfriend goes "no they don't know I'm dating anyone." I really don't mind not meeting his mom, that's fine. I would Like to but it's not the ... (197 words)

My boyfriend is like a magnet to girls with issues!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

3 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend attracts girl friends with issues. When I first got with him he had a female friend that he was texting every day to tell her how pretty and awesome she was. He did this cos she was depressed and he was afraid she'd hurt herself if she wasn't cheered up regularly. ... (320 words)

She said I didn't get it, she's right, I didn't get it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3747 days ago

3 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Sorry this may be a little long. So last night my gf of almost 2 years and I were fine. We were watching a movie, she fell asleep and I fell asleep shortly after her. We weren't fighting or anything. Then this morning she told me she had a dream that I had cheated on her and ... (725 words)

I don't want to scare her sexually so I am dirty and sad :(

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

3 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I met my current gf about a year and a half ago... from the get go I realised she was the one. She's funny, she's smart, she's kind, she's gentle... she understands me in ways that a lot of other people don't. I feel loved and secure I am happy in almost every way... (112 words)

My girlfriend got mad at me for sending a Happy Birthday messsage on Facebook

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

3 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend got mad at me for sending a Happy Birthday message to a girl I used to do sexting with on Facebook. She says she dosen't want to see me anymore , what should I do ? I don't see the big deal ! All I said was happy Birthday. My girlfriend asked why I had to send her ... (156 words)