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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2014 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I tell my Mom the things my cousin has shared with me about my father and the affair my father is having?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My cousin [We'll call him R] came with me today with news that really shocked me. He told me my dad has been seeing a woman he graduated with who has a lot of money. The other day, R came to my house (I still live with my parents) and I wasn't there. My dad asked if he woul... (412 words)

Expecting a baby with Bf. Looking for accomodation. Bf suggested adding a female room-mate. I said no. Was I wrong to say no to his idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are currently apartment hunting. We are expecting a child in a few months and have been looking for a 2 bedroom apartment with little luck. The other day he messaged me telling me that one of his female coworkers was looking for a place and he asked if I'd b... (424 words)

My boyfriend called me ugly, should I be upset?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for about 3 years now. He's never called me ugly before (and I'm not too attractive) but recently I've made a new guy friend and I was texting him a lot today. My boyfriend was with me and he kept asking who i was texting. I told him and he got a little ... (164 words)

My wife went too far during a threesome. How do I get past this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (M)

age 41-50 - I saw someone had a similar issue as this a few years ago. But I wonder if anyone had any current advice they can give me. My wife and I have been together for 4 years and recently tried to spice things up by me agreeing to a 3sum with another male. However when it happened she ... (106 words)

I found my new wife on an escort website. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone please help me. i just got married. i knew her from long time back but we werent keeping contact eachother untll we decided to get married. we are from same country but living in different countries. she lived in singapore and im living in uk. since we got ... (193 words)

Struggling to get over my holiday romance. Do I try harder or let it go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just confused and need some help as I have no one else to talk to. I recently went on holiday in Greece with my friends. I met this guy from England aswell whilst over there. We just clicked well so I thought. We spent the majority of the time together and I may have done ... (165 words)

She said she's not into sex but now seems to want a relationship. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (M)

age - I have known this woman for 20 years. We are now both divorced. We've been dating basically just to get out of the house and we enjoy each others company. The first date we went out on, she stated she's not into sex out of no where. I thought gee I had no intention of bothering ... (293 words)

All I want is a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

26 August 2014 (M)

age 30-35 - many people are sad because they dont have a girlfriend. i am too but my problem is far too serious than that. i am 25 and i never had a girlfriend for which i am sad but also i know that i will meet someone special one day but my problem is that i cant put my mind off from ... (267 words)

Am I totally over thinking this? I don't want our relationship to be based on lies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - I got married three months ago, and we have been together for a little over two years. I am probably in the happiest relationship out of anyone I know. In the very beginning I didn't want to be official with him because I was so in love with my ex. Also, he had a one year o... (329 words)

Is it normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - This question is rather trivial, but I would like to know whether its normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls? My boyfriend recently commented that if there was anything he did that might potentially spark off an a... (209 words)

Girls are in control and I don't want my boyfriend to think any other way, so what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 22-25 - Okay, so my bf was perfect, he blew off his friends for me in class he found excuses to sit next to me and every chance he got he spoke to me. but now he's in anouther world and we hardly speak... and he wont let me tell my bff we're dating because he wants this a 'secret' so ... (141 words)

I go on a weekend away and come home to a boyfriend with what looks like a love bite on his neck

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone! I'm just wanting your opinion on whether I'm being naive here! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, I've never had a reason to not trust him! This weekend I went away with my friends for bank holiday and he went out with his friends! I ca... (320 words)

Am I too idealistic to be with a Vulcan type personality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I took a break for about two months - we will be together for two years in October this year. We talked at length about the issues in our relationship and both feel that we have worked through it well. The main big problem is absolutely gone now! However... (231 words)

I think my B/f might he seeing this other girl but I don't know what to ask him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I normally have a great sex life. We would have sex maybe 2-3 times a day when we first met, and although nothing too kinky, it was adventurous. When we moved in together it slowed down, and he almost stopped wanting it as often or as fun. I thought he was ... (502 words)

Ex was on the verge of cheating and blames me for his indiscretion!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Aunties and Uncles, I was in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years. I recently broke it off with him because he was texting another women. Nothing horribly inappropriate, but eventually he admitted he was attracted to her and started talking to her for those reason... (180 words)

Is there any way to find out whose baby I am carrying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been trying for a baby its been 3 years now i had an affair with another guy we did not use a condom and 2days apart i slept with my boyfriend and only to find out that i conceived on the day that i slept wit my boyfriend is there any possibility that i ... (69 words)

My boyfriend wants to be a lone traveler!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating about two years now. He has a son with another woman unplanned. I've always known he's wanted to travel the world at some point and I never thought much of it as its something I'd like to do at some point too, not as a lifestyle but I'd like ... (200 words)

My boyfriend disappeared for days and I feel sad, confused, and lonely

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and I have (or had...) a very happy relationship, at least it was happy on my end, and he seemed happy too, but now I have no idea what is going on. It was very hard for me to trust him at first because of all the things that have happened to me with guys. But over ... (689 words)

How can we make our long-distance relationship successful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 30-35 - He's from the UK, I'm from the US. We've been talking online for 6 years now, been "official" for one. Guess what... I've never met him! I know this sort of relationship is unconventional. A bit weird, and most people don't get it and will never get it. But we cam a couple ... (356 words)

Would you start a relationship with a good friend who asks, "If we're both not married by 30 then will you marry me?"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very good friend. He was my first love, 10 years ago, and we have kept in touch ever since. He means a lot to me, I love him, we usually get on and he makes me howl with laughter. We also have similar interests and ideals etc. Basically we're very compatible, but for ... (297 words)

If he really wasnt interested why would he have text me all of those months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F)

age 36-40 - So I was texting this guy who was working away for about 9 months. During that time we were talking about going places together when he came home. Now he is back on one hand he seems interested flirting etc but on the other tells people he isnt interested. If he really wasnt ... (80 words)