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writes:I was sitting here, alone in my basement feeling bad for myself, and decided I would write a list of all of the women I have slept with. I can't remember all of them that I have been with. Should this be concerning in my eyes? What is you all's opinions? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (27 November 2013):
 Wait 'til you get to my age.... and, by lunch time, you won't be able to remember what you had for breakfast!!!!
Do you really want us to treat this like a serious and legitimate inquiry????
P.S. I think that I have slept with a couple of women... but darned if I can remember them, either.... Tho' I DO remember the one who used to wear "Intimate" perfume!!!!
Good luck.... and congratulations on your connubial successes!!!!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (26 November 2013):
 I don't think it's something worth your concern. However, that's entirely up to you and how you feel about it. If you think it's bad, then from now on keep track of the ones you sleep with. Either by sleeping with fewer, in the hopes you will remember, or write them down.
But, why keep track of them and remember? Does it serve a purpose? The mind is selective in what it cares to remember. Not remembering doesn't mean you've slept with soooo many, it can also just mean that it wasn't something you thought of as significant enough to remember. So you decided to store other information in your head instead.
Just as long as you are with good health you are fine. Just check with your doctor, get tested in between each new sex partner. Then it's all good.
Oh, but don't tell a new partner you don't remember, at least not right away. It gives the impression you are a player, which is not a good way to impress a lady. Don't lie, but don't discuss former partners until you're getting more serious. In my opinion though, you shouldn't bring up the past at all, but some people are curious like that...
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reader, YouWish +, writes (26 November 2013):
 Why would writing down all the women that you've slept with make you feel better, and why were you feeling bad for yourself in the first place?
Personally, I think you should look to the future and not the past. Writing down a list of all the girls you've slept with may make your ego feel a little better, but in the end, it does absolutely nothing for you in the here and now.
Also, if you've slept with so many girls that you can't remember their names, and you're wanting a more long term relationship, you better pick a girl who is not the jealous type. Be with someone sexually compatible, which in your case would be someone who has also been sexually adventurous who's had a variety of men in her life.
The only other thing is that you know you're disease free. Stay safe when it comes to sex, and if you're into the one night stands sort of thing, keep condoms and test yourself often!
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