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writes:Why is it the people that you find VERY attractive never feel the same way towards you, yet the people you don't find attractive obsess over you? Does anyone else get this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2013): This is the OP. I adored my ex boyfriend physically. He didn't feel the same about me. Now I met someone else who is physically obsessed and I don't like him physically! The weird thing is my ex boyfriend wasn't a hit with women yet he didn't me find me very attractive physically...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2013): Ah, yes! I get this ALL THE FREAKING TIME! So glad to know I'm not alone! I always get attracted to guys who are either married (and their wife is always stunningly beautiful, of course), or guys who are quiet and shy, and don't show much interest in any women. It sucks. The only guys who get attracted to me want one thing, and it's not a relationship.
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reader, adaminio +, writes (6 July 2013):
Yes it does and its frustrating..then when I do meet a girl I find attractive and she does find me attractive.. there is no conversation and I struggle to keep interest ha. I hope the lady above is right!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 July 2013):
 Eh, yes, this happened to me all the time until I found a man that I found very attractive who thought I was mutually attractive. Thing is, when that happens, people sort of get married. And, by the looks of how many get married (love marriages, not arranged marriages) you can see that it does happen quite often!
It's just the story of kissing many frogs until you find the prince. Of course the ones you aren't attracted to are going to approach you, just the ones you approach don't always find you attractive. The lucky combo is when both people find the other attractive, which is when and why people get together.
But yes, it can take a while to find the person you're crazy about, who's also crazy about you. Not just about looks, but loves you for everything you are. It'll happen to you, just keep going after the ones YOU are attracted to, and then suddenly one day one of these gorgeous guys are going to be the one who is completely crazy for someone who's just like you.
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