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writes:Sick of my ex. Ever since we broke up he's changed! He used to be sweet, yeah annoying at times but he made the effort to get along with my friends and was nice to everyone. He dumped me after a 10 month relationship, of which only 5 were "official" and since then he seems different. He's blackmailed my friends and after dumping me he went straight for one of my bezzies, then when he set his sights on another girl, was a complete ass to her. Then he dumped her and it won't be long before he goes for this younger girl. We figure it's all for popularity but why has his personality changed so much? I know I shouldn't care, but we were close friends once and I worry about him. I am over him where love is concerned, I'm even into a new guy, but i miss our old friendship and his actions are really making me cross, he used to care about people's feelings but now...I'm just so confused!
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reader, AbigailBradbury +, writes (3 February 2012):
 stop worrying about this guy! concentrate on your own life. You deserve happiness so concentrate on being happy! This guy has obviously messed you about before and your friends. He's not worth you caring so much is he??
you need to stop thinking about his life so much. Stop being so nice! Haha :) just leave him to make his own mistakes. he'll realise you were a true friend and crawl back eventually.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (3 February 2012):
 Who knows why he acts the way he does, honestly I would stop worrying about him and focus on your own life and future, he isn't worth the drama.
Maybe he was just always a douche, you just didn't see it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2012): I don't know, perhaps he's still hurt because the relationship had ended? Maybe by going for all of these different girls, he is either trying to get over you (rebound) or trying to make you jealous. I guess what you need to do is talk to him, explain you don't understand why he is behaving this way and as you both used to be closed friends, explain how this is angry or upset you're starting to get with him. He might even tell you why he is acting how he is.
If he still behaves this way.. Just leave it. If he's going to act in such a way why should you even bother?
Steph x
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