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*ngelwings420
writes:Hi my name is angel and im 18. Well i just moved to my home state an my mom hand picked a guy out that i should date. Well to get to the point i fell head over heels for him. Well we moved in with his dad becase we both don't have the finances to into a house. Well since being here we have fought a lot and he broke up with me and said he doesn't have feelings for me. By i know he does bease we still act like a coupe and have sex but we both talk to other people. I don't wanna date buy he thinks its best. Well my ouestion is why does he still act like im gf but say he don't hae feelings for me. ?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 December 2012):
 I think the first thing you should do is move home to your mom.
then realize that dating someone your mom picks out for you is not always the best idea.
and remember a woman needs a reason to have sex a man just needs a place. A MAN having sex with you does NOT mean he cares about you.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (23 December 2012):
 I'd say the answer is rather obvious : because you are there, handy, convenient and available for sex. One can have sex also without having feelings for their sex partner.
You fought a lot, you broke up, you are both talking to other people, and your ex says you should date something new. Follow his advice, stop altogether being intimate with him, and , if you really have to live together, treat him as you would a normal roommate. He has moved on, and so should you.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (23 December 2012):
 First thing move out. Move back to your mother's or back to where you were living before.
He has told you he doesn't have feelings for you, and that you are not his girlfriend, but as long as you are willing to hang around he will USE you for sex.
Is that all you want to be, a convenient place for some guy to poke his penis?
You deserve better than that! Move away from him and stop being so convenient, you are only 18, there is plenty of time for you to find somebody who will treat you with respect and not just use you up!
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