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writes:Hi i am 14 years old and there is a girl in my class at school that i have wanted to go out with for 3 years. but im relly quiet and shy. just wanted to know of any ways to let her know im intresded without having to do much talking to her.
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reader, DIE-romantic. +, writes (2 September 2007):
 Well, you can send her secret looks. Little gestures maybe, but she may be confused with them. Basically you may have to tell her. For her to know. Good luck and take care xxxxxxx
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reader, duce00  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Ahhh yes, I had a crush like that once too. I wonder where she is today?
I cant give you the best advice on dealing with 14yr girls because I was like you when I was 14. Just as awkward and yet passionate too. Ive learned a few things about women over the years and I will pass that on. Hopefully you can benifit, and even if the object of your affection doesnt turn out to be the one you get a chance to be with you will be able to deal with women in general better.
As kenny said, body language is important. Try not to slouch and seem physically withdrawn. Hold your head up and when you get a chance to lock eyes with her, take it!
Like it or not you will have to talk to her to let her know your interested. Most women like to talk. Im sure you have alot more to say than you think you do. Try to ask questions about her. Learn about her. When she wants to know about you let her ask, dont go blabbering on about yourself. Women like confidence and they know when your just bluffing (at least the smart ones do and theres no point in going for any other kind).
You dont need to be casanova to get to know this girl better, but you will have to step outside your comfort zone. Try to do other things in your life that make you feel good and proud. This will show through to her and benefit you as well. You will break out of your shell my friend and this is the time in your life when you start to do that. Sure, go after this girl but also go after everything else too. Everyday you are building on the man you will become. Seize the day!
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reader, kenny +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Body language and small flirtatious gestures are probably going to be the best way of getting it across that you like her. Eye contact always works well, try to catch he eye and try to keep it going with her for as long as you can before smiling and looking away. If you are sitting in a group point one foot in her direction. Light touches like gently touch her arm when passing. Or when passing or taking a piece of paper or a pen or something, try to touch her fingertips at the same time.
Hope this helps you and good luck
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