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female
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anonymous
writes:after a party a couple of months things got out of hand and i became very drunk , things led as they do and i comitted a sin , my friend and i slept together we are 14 and were not thinkin strate , he also had a girlfriend who he claims is his life , he really cares about her so we decided the truth would be kept between us . the truth leaked and his girlfriend became aware of the situation. we quickly denied it without thinkin and it has lead to even more lies. A month on my friend admited the truth and hes now lost her forever , i just want to know how to make this situation better because it really cant get any worse :(
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Sweetie,
This is just how little lies can snowball into big ugly avalanches. You tell one lie and then have to tell another lie to cover the first and so on.
The bad thing is that there is probably no way in this situation to make things better. It is much like being careless with a knife. Once you cut yourself the damage is done and there is really nothing you can do but let the wound heal on its own providing you don't need to take further measures like stitches.
Sorry I can't give you more comforting advice. Doc.
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