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writes:i broke up with ma boyfriend 2 months ago,actual he started dating my so called bestfriend,i hear they broke up, he never wanted to talk to me but a month a go he started sendin me IMs asking me if i hate him,why am i acting like he is not existing,im always playin with his friends but not him.then he started askin me to be friends with him ,and asking me if i have a boyfriend yet,have i gotten over us.now he has started hangin out at my place,he wants to act like everything is ok,i told him he better stop it because i want boundaries in this friendship but he always wants to touch me like we are still 2gether,this realy freaks me out, i dont know what to do,he always tels me he misses playing with me,i dont know if he wants me back or what
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): Hi love,
To be honest and not to mince my words id tell him to make jurky movements anywere but near you cheeky s**t...
Your best mate shame on her and well at least you no what a complete arse he is, Find yourself a nice guy and a decent friend who isnt going to stab you in the back, where is the mates code you dont go anywere near your mates blokes under any circumstanses... Wow! you have been through it. I hope you sort this out good luck love TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Simply tell him to F off. And dont talk to him anymore.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Tell him to f*ck off in my opinion. He hurt you and now he thinks he can click his fingers and you'll come running. Is that a relationship you want?
As well as this, this so called " friendship" is just to try and get back with you, and I'm pretty damn sure he will use you. Probably for one thing only. Get rid hun. You are worth more than that. He really hurt you and to be honest, I wouldn't even be mates with him if he thinks that he can just walk in there and get you back.
What an asshole. Sorry, just my opinion, but if I was you, tell him to stay the hell away from you, hasn't he caused you enough problems without him messing up your head even more???
Stay away from him hun, you're worth more than that and you can live happily without him.
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reader, hit-the-road,jack... +, writes (1 September 2007):
id tell him to back off, and if he doesnt, just not let him round yours.him sending yuou IMs showed that he was still interested, but if you broke up with him once,and he was willing to betray you (kinda) by being with your best mate, then who knows if it'd work again?guess it's all down to whether you wanna be back with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2007): omg, I can't believe your still freinds with him and it's obvious he dosen't want just freindship from you. This guy is a total jerk, he cheated on you with your best freind and he obviously has no regard to your feelings. Cut him loose and don't be a weak pathetic woman
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