I have a married woman chasing after me. Do I need to play hard to get?

A male age 51-59, *m1555 writes:

I have a married woman chasing after me. Do i need to play hard to get? she has been married for 14 years and has two children. I have already told here i was attracted to her. her response was "that why i told you i was married up front" i am a single male in my mid 30's and she is the same age as i am. I also found out she had a previous affair! i have been knowing this woman for about 2 years. when we first met it was an attraction thing. we would look at each other. I never presued this because i knew she was married. then one day i came in to visit her because i have too. this is what she said" Im not getting any sex from my husband and i heard that getting some would be the best you would ever get. i have never give her my phone number or even ask her out for lunch. i also ask her what she had to offer me that i didn't already have or could get I have to see this woman once a month. any advise would help me. I know this is a dangerous game and i need to keep control.

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