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writes:dear cupid i have been with this guy for 4 or 5 years. Since the last year i have loved him dearly but his work ethic is really bugging me. We just got married. we have 2 kids togeather under 2 and he refuses to get a job that offers more than 10 hours a week. He just sits at home while I'm at work and plays video games and does the bare minimum with the kids. I dont know what to do. I love him but i dont think I should stay with him anymore as its just getting to be to much and I have had heart problems. If I dont get some of this stress gone im gonna end up having another heart attack and i just dont know what to do. He also has gender identity issues that I didnt know about until recently. He wants to be a female and i am just not interested in that so yeah help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2007): Hunny,
You are in a no win situation, gender issues I was nearly killed because of my husbands gender issues the same!!!....You cant live this way and shouldnt have to. Not only do you have the children to think about, Thats a job in itself but what about you. Do you really want to be with a man who wants to be a woman, I sure as hell did not and the stress that goes with all these issues are enough to send you insane.
This may not even be the tip of the iceberg as if he has these issues what is he doing to satisfy his need, Just thinking about it wont be enough...
I think hunny you need to get out while you are fit enough to do it, It sent me to hospital and Im still having certain flash backs now 7yrs later, You dont mention abuse but mentally your not ok, get some support love for you and the children so you can get your life back on track.
I no how this feels and its just not worth your sanity and health at all....PLEASE TAKE CARE OF YOU LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, jodie  +, writes (1 September 2007):
 well if you dont love him no more then leave him by all means!but if you do love him then tell him how your feeling and make him understand tht u need his help to get things done around the house and help with the children!!!that's my advice for you hope it helps!!!
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