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writes:I feel dreadful, yesterday my bf of over a year finished with me saying that "I think we need to split up, this isn't working i need to sort myself out." (On his mates phone by text because he hasn't got one at the moment!)Ever since then i have had that horrible love sick feeling, also rejection. He won't even speak to me properly even on IM its just like basic stuff. I know the best thing to do is to leave him alone, give him some space but i just wanted to know why he did it? I wouldn't say our relationship was bad at all; we would both argue over silly things but would soon make up within that day and although we have had 'breaks' before i have never felt this bad because maybe i know this is the end now? Maybe this wouldn't have happened if i had gone to the adventure park with him which he really wanted me to go (it was a family day out) and i didn't want to go because i always feel sick and go green. Then when he asked me what am i doing insiead, i said i would probably meet up with my friend for a bit..and that was it he wouldn't speak to me properly from then on. He's always had a problem i spose with me having fun with my friends without him. Well any guidence or help is appreciated i feel so rubbish!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Hi
The adventure park incident was possibly just a small part in this.
Things would go a lot deeper than that. Maybe he does suffer with a bit of insecurity and wants you going places with him all the time?
If he doesnt want to speak then there isnt a lot you can do about it. But i know what you mean, you need some answers and thats fair enough.
How can you even begin to learn what went wrong and where you go from here if you dont get them. You need closure.
Theres no point trying to second guess whats happened.
You will probably have to brave up and outright ask him, on line or however you can get to speak to him, why hes finished it and why it wasnt working for him.
You do have a right to know afterall.
Good luck.
C xxxx
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