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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I’m 17, and my lad is 27. We’ve been dating for about a month now, but we have not once gone out on a date! I try to arrange things with him but he always blows me off at the last minute, and he keeps saying that I’m not interested. I wasn’t too keen on the relationship in the first place due the prior relationships, but I thought I should give it a shot. He constantly rings me at midnight after he’s been drinking and talks about having sex in every conversation, and even more so after I told him I didn’t want to jump straight into bed with him. I can’t simply dump him because we work together and I know he’ll be hounding me at work. Any help would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): This guy is not dating you, he is not interested in dating you, he is disrespecting you and calling you late at night because he knows he can and that you like him and put up with his crummy treatment of you, in short he is looking for sex and that is it...
In the US it is considered sexual harassment if someone harasses you at work and gives you unwanted sexual attention, I think it is the same in the UK, tell him to leave you alone, and then go to your human resources department and file a complaint, do this any way and do it first or he will beat you to it and file one against you, sad, but true, he doesn't even like you from the sounds of things, sorry.
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