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anonymous
writes:Hey, i lost my virginity 4 days ago it was protected sex as he used a condom. It didnt split or slide off so why am i so paranoid? It is normal to be this scared after losing your virginity?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): You know, it's funny - we aspire to have sex while we're virgins and then, as soon as we do, we're filled with nothing but paranoia and other doubts. Great huh?! Yes -- it's normal ... and it's not just when you lose your virginity -- the same paranoia will creep up on you after the 2nd time, the 3rd, 4th... 10th... 20th.. etc.Best thing to do is look at methods of birth control and get one that works for you and one that's reliable. Then all you'll be getting paranoid about is STDs!!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (1 September 2007):
 Hi
Why are you so paranoid?
Because you are normal and at the moment dont want a baby!
But really, condoms are brilliant if you use them right, you havent got anything to worry about.
The more you use them, the more confidence you will have in them. You could always use another form of contraceptive at the same time,if it makes you feel better at the moment? Might be worth a trip to your doc or family planning clinic.
But they really are pretty fail safe.
Enjoy!
C xxxxx
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