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writes:okay...well i have a problem.I'm in love with my older brothers best mate.He knows I like him and he likes me to, and we really want to be together. But we know my older brother will never aprove.what do we do?
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reader, lovely2266  +, writes (15 May 2008):
you should just go out with him if your brother really loves you he would want whats best for you.... PS: Make sure that you dont kiss him or do anything in front of him... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): Since when did you become answerable to your older brother! Who cares what he thinks - he's just your brother!! Isn't it more important for you to be happy with what you want rather than what your brother wants for you??Its your life!! He doesn't own his friend does he??
Go for it!! I say you deserve a go at being happy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): Well I Kno How U Feel It happened To Me Once,This What U Do U, Yo Brotha,And His Friend Sit Down Have A Lil Talk About Whats Going On And You Tell Yo Brotha U Love His Friend And He Cant Do Anything About It Because You Are In Love
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reader, BethfyLuvsJames  +, writes (28 January 2007):
Oh Gosh!
I dont really no what i would do!
I am in love with my brother best mate!
We have been dating for 9 months or so!
Honsty it was the same with my brother if the guy really likes u he will go for it and ur brother will end up missing him and he will learn to deal with it! thats what happened to me!
And im now engaged, and my brothers best mate is my future husband!
They see it now they can see each other more often thast means more guy time and honsty i dont care when they do stuff toughter as long as he comes back home to me
I am 16 and he is 17 turning 18
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reader, Chrisss  +, writes (28 January 2007):
 Dear Anonymous,
To me, the bottom line is, you like him and he likes you...correct. I personally wouldn't care what my brother thought about it.
If you know that your brother's best friend is 'decent' and wont be supported by you in a matter of weeks, then i think you should just go for it.
If you can show your brother that you really like his friend then i'm sure he will eventually realise this and approve of you two.
I hope this helps,
Chrisso
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reader, Crazyhair5509174 +, writes (28 January 2007):
Dont give a monkeys what your brother thinks. Love doesnt have to be 'approved' by all. If your brother loves you as his little sister and he is a true friend to the one you love, then he wont mind. Love is a feeling between two people. Your brother is an outsider and is not in the feeling. What he thinks is not important. I hope this helps.
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reader, Damo +, writes (28 January 2007):
i say go for it. its your decision and your brothers friends decision. without sounding too harsh, its got nothing to do with your brother really has it? you may be younger than your brother but its not like you are his little sister anymore is it?
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