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writes:Halloo,This probably sounds fairly pathetic but I can't get over my ex who dumped me to travel and also I think because I was having some difficulties with stress at a new job and stuff causing moodiness and all that. She's in Australia now and she emails me all the time. I've been with a few girls since as it's been 2 years now but I just can't get her out of my head and can't seem to get anywhere with the other girls that I've met. i'm always thinking of her and how the others just aren't good enough. We had a lot in common and still do. What to do??? Is it just me??? TaPete
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reader, Tanyas247  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 Does she know how you feel? If so, then she would have shown interest already if there was any. I hate to sound harsh, but it sounds like you're blaming yourself for her leaving. This also makes you think you can change things somehow. She left for her own reasons, not just because of your stress, etc. It is easy to miss someone when they are hard to replace! This doesn't mean that she's the answer. It means she's the standard because you know what you like now. It's a beautiful part of life. Change, growth, and knowledge. So, don't settle for anything less, but don't ever feel you can't move on and be happy with someone who will meet those standards. Part of being able to move on is dating the right people, as well as understanding why things didn't work out between you two.
I'm sure you will work it out.
Best of Luck
Tanya
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