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When guys flirt with me, I find it hard to flirt back. Any tips?

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Question - (28 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do you flirt?

Im 15 and I am quite attractive, and I have had many guys say that I am, and add me on MSN and etc.. Yet I find it hard to talk to them. Furthermore, when they flirt with me I find it hard to flirt back!

Please help me!

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A female reader, melschatbox United States +, writes (29 January 2007):

melschatbox agony auntJust cuz you were blessed with the looks doesn't mean you have the total package. ( I don't mean that harshly) What I'm saying is..you have one thing in your court...the others take practice. Talking and feeling comfortable with others (boys and girls) doesn't always come easily to us. Take me for example, I was a cutie too when I was younger. But, I was raised with an older sister and no brothers to make conversing with boys obtainable by association. I mean, I didn't have a brother with friends over to the house to make myself comfortable around boys. Of course, that's not the only way we gain courage. It starts with self confidence in ourselves. This will sound cliche' but just being an all around nice and giving person will help you to communicate with others. Flirting is a tricky form of communication. When you get to know someone well enough, your words and actions will fall into place.

Good Luck.

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