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anonymous
writes:I am having a mid-teen crisis. I have recently ended a 6 month relationship with this guy that i really liked and i ended it because we never saw each other because we were both really busy, but for the last couple of weeks he had been acting really off-and i mean really off. i had previously asked him if anything was wrong but he had replied that he was fine, but a bit busy which i totally understood as I was also busy. but it was too much and i wrote a letter explaining everything and i said in the letter that it was up to him what happened next.but that was a week ago and he stil hasn't replied.What do I do? do i text him to see how he is or just not get in contact until he makes the first move?i do want to be his friend but i don't want him to hate me. please help-this worry is taking over my life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): You are too young to be all consumed with whether or not this boy wants to be your friend, at his age especially the more you pursue with letters and texts and phone calls the more he will stay away....my suggestion to you is not to worry too much about it, it means he has feelings for you and he is just trying to get used to the idea of not having you a a special girlfriend....in time if you give him his space, he should relax and be back to his old self, but if he doesn't don't fret, you just need to forget it and go on hard as it sounds, you will make many close friends and some not so close during your lifetime and there will be many dissappointments as well it is all part of life, you did not do anything wrong, in fact you told him how you feel and that you want to remain his friend, that is all you need to do.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (28 January 2007):
 To be honest you told him that it was up to him what happened as a result of the letter and he hasn't got in touch which says it all. Write it off and move on. And just for the future letters only really work if someone isn't speaking to you at all. Otherwise they're a bit of a risky step.
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