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writes:I am still not over my ex. We were together a long time and split about a year ago. He has someone new and see no hope or reason for us to get back together but there is still no peace in my heart. During the day when I am busy it is ok but the nights are still tough and I wonder when I will be over this. Any thoughts.
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reader, melschatbox  +, writes (29 January 2007):
 Blues2 is right!
Once you meet someone new, the loneliness will subside. I know that doesn't help your situation currently, but it's some happy news to aspire too. I feel more sad and lonely at night myself. I think at night we have more time to dream about what could have been or what we did wrong in our relationship for it to have taken this unsuspecting path. At night, I suggest reading a book, watching T.v., doing something that will help you not think about him. I know....so much easier said than done! Just think of this..you deserve better than some guy that doesnt want you for who you are ...let him go!
Best of Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2007): Hi, I think you are having trouble because he is with someone new and you are not, so you feel more alone. One thing you could do to make yourself feel better at night is not to sit home much....join a gym or a social club or even get a part time evening job where you can meet some friends, try a telemarketing outfit if you have those where you live, lots of different aged people there and the atmosphere is usually fun and relaxed....just stop yourself from thinking about him all of the time and don't try to "keep track" of him, let him go, it is the only way to speed this process up.
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