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writes: hi im in a reltionship at the moment but the thing is when i was staying at my girlfriends i kissed her sister should i tell her or shall i keep it a secret Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (12 January 2007):
 If it was some random girl, and it was a one time thing and a big mistake, I might say no. Don't tell her.
However, this is your girlfriend's sister and her sister will probably say something sooner or later. So do you want your girl to hear it from you? Or from her sister?
Think about it.
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (12 January 2007):
 ? y did u even kiss her sister if u were datin her i mean u kissin her sister isnt right when u have a g.f ok alot of gurls get angry if they hear from someone that their b.f kissed her sister n i would just keep it inside until u feel that its been long enough n u want to tell her like say "im srry i kissed ur sister i rele didnt mean too i still love you n hope u can forgive me " ok it could work
hope things work out with love jenna
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reader, mellissa333 +, writes (12 January 2007):
 some things are just better kept inside.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): Depends. Do you plan to ever kiss her again?...or was it a momentary lapse in judgement? You didn't say what kind of kiss it was either. A sweet peck, or a full on french kiss? Also, you didn't really say how the kiss came about or why. It's a slippery slope. It's not as damning as sleeping with her sister but if the sister spills the beans to her about the kiss it won't look so innocent either because the confession didn't come from you, the guilty party. Alot also depends on where you see your relationship going with your g/f, how serious you are about her, how long you've been together etc. Consider all of this carefully before you say a word. And then if you chose to come clean, just remember things may be forever strained with you, her and the sister in the same room. She may not trust you for a long, long time. Perhaps that will teach you a lesson in being faithful. Good luck.
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reader, cd206  +, writes (12 January 2007):
 Bear in mind that her sister might tell her first and make a plan about how you will deal with it if that happens. I think the first thing you have to do is speak to the sister and tell her you're sorry about what happened and for putting her in this positiion with her sister. Then you tell her that you love your girlfriend and don't want her to know about it because you see it as an error so you hope that you can keep it between you. To be honest I think a kiss is just a kiss, something that happens sometimes when the situation is especially different. I wouldn't be inclined to tell your girlfriend unless you really can't live with the guilt or you think her sister might tell her, in which case I would try and explain first. Hope this helps.
CD
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