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writes: my mum is on her 4th marriage and i think this has given me issues. im only 18 and i lay in bed at night dreading that i am going to be alone for the rest of my life. i dnt know why this is. im in a 3year relationsip and i love my bf very much, could it be because he joined the army about 8months ago? i also fell out with my friends recently because they betrayed me in a really hurtful way that i could never forgive? i hate feeling like this. why do i think these things? xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2007): I think part of this stems from you comparing yourself to your mom. My parents both had interesting relationships and if anything I learned not to do what they were doing( ie shutting down emotions, no communication etc.- faults that ruined the relationships they had..) My sugesstion from this is to see what your mom is doing that you dont want to do- pick out target flaws and learn from them so you dont feel like you have to walk in your footsteps- out of every thing that distrubs you there should be soemthing to learn from it. hope this helps!
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reader, cd206  +, writes (12 January 2007):
 Believe me, I know how it feels to worry about being alone forever but it doesn't sound like it'll happen to you. I think the various ups and downs in ur life right now have left you feeling pretty insecure. It will improve in time, just try to keep smiling for now. You're only 18. Life will all fall into place eventually! Hope this helps.
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