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*ppygal81
writes: I have been dating my Bf ( he is 37, i am 25) for about 5 months now. I was enjoying it being a slow moving relationship. I absolutley love the guy. The problem is, is that I dont know how he feels about me. I told him I loved him, but also told him i didnt expect to hear it in return. I just wantd him to know how i felt. I have not told him i loved him since. what should i do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, appygal81 +, writes (16 January 2007):
appygal81 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i took the advice from the one respondent. I did not bring it up at all. I could just tell being in his arms and how it felt. Thats all that matters, we enjoy each others company. I dont want to ruin what we have by pressuring the relatiosnhip. Just taking it one day at a time. I love the man alot. He knows i do love him. But he is also smart enough to know that i dont have to say it for him to know. ive had a rough month (dec) i had my car repoed, but he helped me get it back. He forked out the money so i could get my transportation back.( i am paying all of it back) not too long after that i found out i was pregnant. neither of us was ready for a child (i already have 1 daughter from a previous marriage). so I had an abortion. He take better care and treats my daughter better than her real father ever could. I think he is just what i need in my life. I dont think i could have found a better match. I love him so much, that i just am willing to take it day by day to see where it goes.
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reader, sexylinz +, writes (12 January 2007):
i think you should just leave it be. he will express his feelings for you when the time is right for him and he feels ready.
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