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writes:Dear Cupid.I'm 20 and have had a bit of a dodgy experience with blokes, one described me as being too open and loving for my own good, and sometimes it seems that way. Either way my niavity with men has got me into a lot of bother.I recently split up with a boyfriend after a 2 year highly intense relationship where he expressed his will to marry me and god knows what. I found this too hard to deal with so left, only to feel terrible for the following time. In the meantime i spoke to my ex, who is equally as hard work but i have remained to have a flame for since our six month relationship 3 years ago. He wants to start things off, but when im honest about my (bad emotional/ upset) feelings he tends to shy back and tell me im over reacting. This is encouraging me to run back to the ex who treat me well but a little intense.I cant help but think they are both bad for me and most my friends and family agree with this, however i am struggling to deal with the feelings for both men and it is bringing me down. Any suggestions would be well needed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionupdate. seems the nice guy isnt so nice at all, found out yestoday that he had been with another girl since whilst we were together, this hasnt changed my feelings though, im still very upset and very undecided as to which route to take.
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reader, Big boy +, writes (12 January 2007):
 Your funny, remind me of a girl I used to know, I tell you one thing there are not a lot of good guys out there, you know these guys better than anyone, so you decide on who will make you feel better look after you love and care for you, no body is perfect, sit down and have a chart with the guy who u feel will treat you right the same you would respect him as well, and see where it goes. There aren’t alot of good guys out there!!
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