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writes:My sister and her boyfriend have been together for a year and their relationship has always been crap - they always argue and moan at each other. My sister can sometimes be a real bitch to him and when Im with them I tend to stand up for him as I feel sorry for him But when I see him upset my sister, I find myself getting angry and standing up 4 her. Anyway, I know I should have kept my nose out of their business as its not my relationship but I I know that my sister doesnt love him and doesnt even want to be with him, its just a routine. I was friends with the boy before they got together and I know he loves her to pieces and I hate seeing him doing everything for her when she doesnt care about him.Anyway, now they have both turned against me saying that Im trying to split them up and that I want him for myself which is totally not true! They got my family involved and now everyone thinks Im this evil liar trying to cause trouble.Her boyfriend has even gone up to my boyfriend, who he doesnt even know, and told him that Im evil and screwed up and to stay away from me. Now my boyfriend has split with me. When I confronted her boyfriend about this he said I was making it up. My family know what he said about me and they know hes accused me of making it up but hes more welcome in our house than I am. Nobodys talking to me and I havnt done anything wrong but try to stand up for them both. What annoys me the most is her boyfriend slagging me off to my friends and boyfriend and then coming round my house and eating dinner with us and Im not allowed to complain or even ask him why hes doing it. I can t believe that this is my own parents and they dont give a shit how upset I am, all they care about is my sister and her happiness. I dont know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2006): You will continue to get annoyed no doubt, and people will continue to accuse you of being whatever they think you are. Best thing to do in my PoV, is just stay out of sight, do your own things, avoid everyone related to that incident altogether. If I were in your shoes and depending on your age of course, I would try to find a way to move out of your parents' house. I wouldn't stand for such accusations. Talking is no longer a viable option.
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reader, staceii12x07 +, writes (24 July 2006):
It seems like he knows that your sisters feelings for him arent as deep as his our for her. I think he knows yours also aware of this so he finds you an easy target to vent his anger. You should really explain that to the boyfriend you lost over all this childish drama. You also need to tell your parents how you feel, sit down and have an actual talk with them about the situation without your sister present. And keep in mind that they arent choosing your sister over you, they are just trying to keep everything fair and everyone welcome in the house.
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