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writes: we have been in a relationship for three years now. changed jobs together, we still are working together.two months ago she broke up with me saying "the feeling is lost and i dont feel the way i did for you anymore" she said she wanted to be by herself however started seeing another guy, when i questioned her she said "we are just friends" a month ago she had been abroad for work purpose along with one of my friend who knew everything about us, he was seeing my sister, However when they came back,they have developed feelings for each other between them. I have tried questioning her, spoke to her mom, played all the dirty games that i could.This has got her all the more angry now. But when i call her now she still answers my calls. she speaks and maintains a very professional relationship.i tried to get her out of my mind but it doesnt work, she has cause pain to me, my sister n many others and she's cool about it. She said that she would never come back to me ever. I kinda hate her now but the love for her is more than that. I want her back...The reason for the breakup was that i was not paying attention to her all that much cause of work, but now that i want to, she doesnt care.Please Help......
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2006): Though you wish to acquire her back, it seems that you weren't very sincere with her from the beginning. You said that she lacked attention from you, but when u two broke up, you played stupid little games, spoke to her mom, and tried questioning her. What type of man are you?!?!
Now you want her back and somehow you're going to prove to her that you are better than that guy she's seeing now. How are you going to do that when what u have done has tainted how she thinks of you. It's true that she might still have feelings for you, thus possibly allowing a window of hope for you to act upon, but you will have to do so much in a strictly sincere way to get her back.
As with Chazx, you can start by telling her how u feel - either through a hand written letter or through voice. Damn it, stop with those games, and stop with the questions. It's not your place to question her in the first place.
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reader, chazx  +, writes (24 July 2006):
 helloyour ex girlfriend has problem feeling like she is being ignored, rejected ect so she wants the attension and from what i can gather she is getting that somewhere else so thats where she has gone if you want her some much you have to try harder explain that you are sorry for not giving her enough attention and that you will try.explain how you feel or you wont get her back ok! good luck
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