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writes: Am I being too over analytical? I'm a female and jn a relationship..things have been going well. My bf and I have been together for 3 years. The past year we have lived together. I own a lovely home, I work and of course he helps me pay the bills, which has been a load of stress/worry off my shoulders. I am also raisng a teen son and up to the point my bf came into my life, my ex husband was paying 'spousal' support but once my bf moved in with me, in accordance with my divorce agreement, the spousal support ended (Ex pays child support, irregardless) My bf has always talked to me about our future, making plans, etc. But lately, he said something that made me think. He asked me, "If something happened between us, how would you make ends meet? Would you get a second job or what?" I told him, I'd find it hard but I would manage. I didn't ask him why he asked that question and I know I should've, now. In fact, I still plan on bringing it up. I guess, I'm just wondering if he's making plans to bail out? Everything else is going well but he seems a bit distant. I know there isn't another woman, as he works and then is home with me, all the time. Should I make anything of this comment? Should I start looking for that second job?
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reader, chazx  +, writes (24 July 2006):
 helloi think you are ok i think maybe you should bring it up but just tread careful maybe he was just wondering ok.i hope it all goes well for you and you get the right answer.Good Luck!
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