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writes:Well theres this guy i have liked for about 4 months now he knows i like him and in the past said he has fancied me too.I asked him out but he said no not at the moment i want to meet up more. I keep trying to make arrangements to meet but he doesnt seem to interested.All my mates think he fancys me coz when ever im upset he always makes me smile. He calls me cute, sweet, sexy and so on.he sends lots of those kisses and hearts n stuff on msn.Im just really confused i think he is sending mixed signals.Does he fancy me? i dunno what 2 do about it i have been told 2 move on but i have tried n failed.What do you think?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (24 July 2006):
 I think this guy is messing you around. He doesn't know what he wants either, so how are you supposed to know?! Young guys sometimes do this and my theory is: they want the best of both worlds. They want a girl they can fall back on if all else fails but they're not willing to completely commit to her. It sounds like he wants to see you when it suits him but when you try to make an effort, he's not bothered.
Make him do some of the work. I'm not saying get over him just yet, see how he does in this situation first. Ignore him completely, don't seem interested and let him do all the chasing for a while. Send him some mixed signals and decide whether you really want him or not. Make him sweat for a while! If he does pay you a lot of attention and sorts himself out, you know he really does want you. If he doesn't seem to care, you know you're onto a loser so forget about him then and move on.
Good luck
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